Simplest possible way to find your True Emotion Mirror

This is True Emotion Mirrors for dummies, the easiest possible way:

• Do not adapt your behavior from how you treat men or women. Treat your dates the same way as you’d instinctively treat your friends..
• Be shamelessly yourself when dating. (Easier said than done: you are what you enjoy. You are the closest possible version to the normative you can enjoyably live as.)
• Make no compromises about what you want.
• Be ready and willing to reject everyone who you don’t see as perfect. <- The 2nd most important part. (Easier than:)
• Be ready to be rejected by anyone who doesn’t ADORE you. <- The most important part.

Because the #1 requirement is being yourself, conformists will not find their True Emotion Mirror. They are too eager to compromise, go with the flow, join a crowd, do what’s popular and accepted rather than “them,” settle for what they don’t want, conform to expectations, and get bogged down in relationships that are nowhere near their True Emotion Mirror.

The “brain off” method.

You have to be brave enough to be yourself, but seeking perfection is your easiest, most important rule—the “brain off” method.

“I don’t like him/her.” “Why?” “No idea, but I’m leaving.” Or, “They don’t think I’m amazing.” “Why?” “I don’t know but they don’t so I’m not sticking around to find out.”

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