If you want true love, do not alter your behavior and approach because they’re man or a woman.

“Men and women” is an illusion. There are the Cat Thinker(s)* and the Dog Thinker(s)*, but they are not gender-linked. You think they are because if you are a Cat Thinker(s)*, you’ve gotten used to hands-on the Dog Thinker(s)* chasing you, or if you’re the Dog Thinker(s)*, you love to chase the Cat Thinker(s)* because you like a challenge. Old Soul* must stop getting suckered into the Dog Thinker(s)*’s games. You need to remain easy-to-get for your dates. Young Soul* will lose their interest, yes, but that’s a good thing. Meet other the Cat Thinker(s)* half-way.

Treat your dates and lovers as if they were your friends. If you are a Cat Thinker(s)*, you CANNOT play hard-to-get. That’s a sure-fire way to turn off another the Cat Thinker(s)*. They won’t care enough (about themselves) to chase you, and you don’t care enough (about yourself) to chase them, no matter how much you love them, ironically. Old Soul* accept misery and unhappiness in relationships with an ease that is scary. If you pretend to be hard-to-get, they’ll shrug their shoulders and think “well that was too good to be true anyway, maybe next time” and they move on – or accept that they’ll always be in love with you but can’t have you – life is the way it is. They’re both optimistic (there have got to be others) and pessimistic (well they were too good to be true anyway.)

Do not play hard to get if you are a Cat Thinker(s)*. It’ll only work with a narcissist and a rejection junkie, and you don’t want them!!

Do not play hard to get if you are a Cat Thinker(s)*. It’ll only work with a narcissist and a rejection junkie, and you don’t want them!!

Do not play hard to get if you are a Cat Thinker(s)*. It’ll only work with a narcissist and a rejection junkie, and you don’t want them!!

Do not play hard to get if you are a Cat Thinker(s)*. It’ll only work with a narcissist and a rejection junkie, and you don’t want them!!

Do not play hard to get if you are a Cat Thinker(s)*. It’ll only work with a narcissist and a rejection junkie, and you don’t want them!!

Do not play hard to get if you are a Cat Thinker(s)*. It’ll only work with a narcissist and a rejection junkie, and you don’t want them!!

Do not play hard to get if you are a Cat Thinker(s)*. It’ll only work with a narcissist and a rejection junkie, and you don’t want them!!

Call them as soon as you feel like it. (Don’t try to be cool.)

Show them that you care, admire, and feel giddy. (They’ll love you for being brave enough to be real.)

Always meet them half way – they text you, text them back, they text you, you text them back… They ask you to come over, and you’ll ask them to come over next time. They ask you out, you ask them out. You ask them out and tell them the next invitation is their turn.

Keep communication lines open, even if you had to say “boo” a lot. NOBODY is so quick to believe they’re not wanted than a Cat Thinker(s)*, but they believe they DESERVE to be wanted.

Do not play hard to get if you are a Cat Thinker(s)*. It’ll only work with a narcissist and a rejection junkie, and you don’t want them!!

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