You don’t (always) need to care about how someone treated their ex. You’re not their ex.
There are people who are systematically violent with all of their friends and loved ones. This is not what I speak of. There are also people who are matter-of-factly cheaters. People also have a relationship strategy that they tend to follow, but when it comes to their True Emotion Mirror, everything changes. When a person falls in love, their entire outlook on relationships and life changes.
Now the question is – are they in love with you or do you just wish they were? If they think of you as nothing more than another relationship, then they’ll probably treat you the same as anybody else, but if they’re in love with you, all bets are off.
There’s also this: how you treat people also has an effect. If you always do what you’ve always done, you always get what you always got with your regular soulmates. With your True Emotion Mirror, when both of you are in your authentic state, the things you do naturally are the right things to get what you always wanted. If one of you is playing games (altering your natural behavior if you even know what that is)… The relationship is busted.
Still. The way people treat OTHERS in their relationships is NOT a direct indication to the way they will treat you – good or bad.
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**) Narcissists are Young Souls left alone to survive and they're doing their best. Their emotional age ranges from 3 to 17 -year old. The younger, the more severe the narcissism.
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