What is your True Emotion Mirror like?

Write down the perfect romantic and sexual partner. Go wild with your imagination. Ask for the impossible. Check the clishes? Do you REALLY want to marry a firefighter? Do you REALLY want to be with a rock star? Tell me, do you really want a blonde, big-titted porn star girlfriend? You may. I’m not saying those are not right answers, but you need to check them as they can be stuck from teenage years or something. Do you really?

What are their sexual fetishes? What is their idea of romance like? Romance or sex first? (Some people want to fall into the arms of their lover on the first meeting, others dream of being friends first or even fighting at first.) What is romantic to them, as it is to you? How do you know they love you? What do they need to show so that you know you are fully loved?

Write the perfect partner, down to the finest detail, if it matters. If you can’t choose, write ‘or’ as much as you like. Once you run out of imagination for anyone cooler than that, you’re done. You’ve described your True Emotion Mirror.

Why people run from their TrEmoR.

Now, you have to remember that is the person you are preparing yourself as the answer to their dreams. And THAT’s why everyone feels a little out of the league of their True Emotion Mirror – they are perfect, and you’re supposed to say ‘hi’ to them?! 😀 That’s why people often choose something easier to explain, like rock stars and the like, or choose from whoever seems to be eager. It’s tough to imagine that the person you’ve described as the most perfect person is actually yours. (And don’t worry, others won’t think they’re perfect. Even if they agree, they’re pretty close. And yes, I know that’s insulting to you and to them, but it is what it is.)

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