Law of Attraction – Let go of the need to control the WAY to the outcome.

The magic of attracting whatever you want in your life, whether it’s material or emotional, is being able to let go of the need to control the route to the outcome. The route is often unpleasant. You also don’t know the quickest way to what you want. You have to allow the Universal Spirit, whatever you want to call it, to navigate your way to it. It is truly like an AI navigator but purely natural, it knows where you are, and where you WANT to be, and where do you need to go through to get where you want to go.

We WILL all get everything that we want, 100% of the time, but ironically, the more we want to control the outcome, the more time it takes. Sadly, if other people are also trying to control your fate, they’ll also add to the mud. But the truth is, we don’t REALLY want to get everything we want, 100% of the time, therefore… We all get 100% of what we want, but not necessarily the way we anticipate.

True Emotion Mirror specifically, stop trying to telepath your way to it.

I mean, you can play with it, yes, but you have to let it happen on its own. One way or another, it’ll happen on its own. You can keep dating, you can keep looking, and you can play the game, but stop acting like you’re a God. You’re not. There are things you can control and there are things you can’t control, try not to confuse the two because… Well. It’ll stress you out.

You don’t have to try and force or trick your True Emotion Mirror to do what you want of them. If they truly are your TrEmoR, there’s nothing or no one in this world they’d rather do or be with than you. If they happen to NOT be your True Emotion Mirror, you don’t want to push the matter, as that’d be a lacklustre relationship anyway.

Your sexuality (or the lack thereof) is nature’s way to keep you on the right path.

Follow your natural urges – your sexuality is the strongest natural way where you’ll find your True Emotion Mirror in your mutual fetishes. Indulge in your fetishes and sexual desires. Be boldly you – it’ll turn off the wrong ones and turn your TrEmoR on like a year-old Christmas tree next to the fireplace.. Hmm. 😀 I may need to work on that analogy, but you get the idea. Just don’t break any laws, is all!

If you want commitment, insist on commitment first. That’s what your True Emotion Mirror will respect you for. Still, if you’re one of those people who save romance for special people, trust that your TrEmoR is like that, too.

You’re an old soul. Dog Thinker(s)* dating rules may not suit you.

Chances are that the modern dating world is not really your cup of tea. Try to find the closest thing to your way of doing it. There’s probably a way to modernize the old way of doing things. Prepare your nest like… A puffer fish… *sighs* “Build it and they will come,” like Wayne’s World’s Naked Indian told Wayne.

Stop controlling your quirks like perfectionism.

There are a ton of people who want you to be LESS you. Screw them. They’re not enough for you, and that’s the end of it. Be as impossible to like as you want to be. It’s OK to try and feel your way to your perfectly authentic self. We’re easily lost in a group opinion, the public opinion, romanticized movies that make us think it was our own thought to begin with. What’s your TRUE idea of romance? Imagine what would be the WILDEST way to meet your True Emotion Mirror.

Dream like a 12-year-old.

As children, we’re shamelessly dreaming about our adulthood. At 17, you’re closest to your authentic self in your mind, I think. Old enough to know yourself and your sexuality, and young enough not to be pushed into a box by society yet. (I’m afraid this is not true for Gen Z, but hopefully Gen Alpha is better off again.) Whatever your age, dream! At 80, you’ll be building your NEXT (love)lifetime, make it awesome!

When you feel your dreams are stuck, they’re not. They’re getting bigger.

If you feel nothing moving or changing in your life, and that your life is stuck, your dreams are on hold… They’re being built. Things are moving and evolving, you just may not see it yet. You may even KNOW it, but you know most of us want some kind of a surprise. Some of us are wishing for a full-blown rollercoaster ride with a blindfold on.

As far as timing goes, things are moving AS FAST AS POSSIBLE and not an ounce faster. Sorry but the bigger your dream, the slower the delivery. If the only thing you want is a job and a house, you can get there in no time, but if you want the full nine yards that no The Secret dreamer dares to even contemplate… It’ll take a while.

If and when your True Emotion Mirror relationship turns telepathic… Listen to them and let them help you.

They may not be able to tell you where they are just now in real life, they may not be able to tell you where and how to meet them, but they… Can tell you how you can attract them. What they’ll go after. And how to raise a flag high enough for them to see… Or something. It’s your relationship, so they’ll tell you what you need to do. If you love them, if you feel that love for them even if they’re unknown to you, you can trust it. (You’ll also know if your “true emotion mirror” or “spirit guide” is way over their head and incompetent or false… That CAN happen, but if you feel the love from them, trust it.)

There’s not many better deals than this; your True Emotion Mirror(s) and you can plan your future together… You may not be able to meet before your dream is ready to be walked into, but you can certainly help each other prepare for it.

Chill. You can also chill about panicking. It’s fine. 😀 You’re locked and bound to the future you want, if it doesn’t look that way right now, you decided to take the fast route, not the scenic route… Right? (To WHAT?! ask yourself why you’re doing what you’re doing. It’s interesting, not necessary.)

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