Physiosexual, and the Normal Person*all at once?

We all have a natural tendency to fall in love and feel sexually aroused by certain things. Most of us are either one or the other from these dualities: Sapiosexual vs. physiosexual or the Savants* vs. dog-type. One of each. Most commonly, people are either physiosexual the Savants*, sapiosexual the Normal Person*, sapiosexual the Savants*, or physiosexual the Normal Person*. Sometimes people are all four at once, which means EVERYONE turns them on constantly and makes them feel love for them. This COULD POTENTIALLY be bliss in the making, but it is a constant Pit of Hell in the wrong company… A Pit of Hell they’re both creating for others, and others are creating for them.

People like this must constantly suffocate their natural reactions to other people who are not like them. Where others have feelings of platonia, where these people have amoria or sexuality, they are perfectly aware their inner feelings are inappropriate, unwelcome, and dirty, even. People who are all four at once are more than likely used to controlling their impulses with an iron fist; they don’t like touching others (because it turns them on), they don’t like cats who get too close to them (because they turn them on) and they may feel uneasy holding children because… Sex.

You can also add bisexuality into this mix, and basically, this person is hard-wired to fall in love and make love to everybody, like a Bonobo Chimpanzee.

Now. If you are like this, you shouldn’t despair (nor be particularly proud of yourself, either. You’re the likely bracket of child sexual offenders, too. That is to say, everything needs the right place and the right time, and everything can cause trauma to an innocent even if all you feel is love). You’re not alone in this world; it’s just that you’re a rare breed like everybody is. You need an adult community with absolutely no bounds between any of you. There would be communities like this amongst nudists and polyamorists – but NOT ALL nudists and polyamorists.

I am sure there is more than one way to be this, too – some may be physioplatonist near children (sexual feelings disappearing) some might be more one thing than another, so give it a little thought – try not to feel shame or guilt; you’re wired the way you’re wired the same as everybody, just differently. We all need to find the right place for our wrongs, as nothing in this world is wrong in its right place, nor is anything right in its wrong place.

Still, let me make a suggestion. Once you have a better idea of how your mind works, create a Second Life account and look for people like you – unfortunately, these terms are not widely used, but if you have the skills, you might want to start yourself a location on Second Life and start something. (I suggest an adult-rated nudist polyamorist beach with specific rules of no boundaries.) You might help a lot of people doing so.

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