The Normal Person* try to make you fall in love with attention.

Again a slightly different way of explaining the difference between the Keen and the Savants* in their bonding strategies.

The Normal Person* are quite easily coaxed away from “a hopeful” state with another person. If they cannot make a Savants* fall in love with them with the attention they’re showing them (and they can’t, they can only make them feel important, guilty, or entertained but not to have them fall in love), they are easily coaxed away from that situation by someone who is willing to show them attention and make a commitment to them.

You have to realize that the Normal Person* don’t fall in love with A PERSON, they fall in love with A RELATIONSHIP TYPE. They decide “I want a boyfriend”, and then, they fill that spot with a male. Then, they have a relationship that they will show love to.

The Normal Person* do not understand a love connection without attention.

When a Savants* is in love with their True Emotion Mirror, it means absolutely NOTHING to the Normal Person*. They don’t understand that connection AT ALL. A True Emotion Mirror couple/soup can be in love with each other over lifetimes and lifetimes, and spend years in separation and not lose an ounce of the sense of the connection. A Normal Person* will fall in love with the attention shown, and they believe by showing attention to a True Emotion Mirror desperately HOPING for a relationship with their True Emotion Mirror, they believe that by showing attention to that person, that alone will melt their heart or heal their wounds.

They believe that True Emotion Mirrors are to the Savants* “the best bet” they have, someone who the Savants* BELIEVES is their easiest and surest option to form a relationship with. (Just listen to the True Emotion Mirrors of celebrities roar in laughter.) Obviously, that is not how we feel about our True Emotion Mirrors, but the Normal Person* don’t understand how without showing attention to each other there could be love AT ALL between these two people.

The Normal Person* will try to compete over you by SHOWERING YOU WITH ATTENTION and guilt trips.

Granted, the Normal Person*’s mating strategy of choice is to show you all the attention you could possibly need – a bit too much of it, too. They completely smother you with it and make sure everyone around you believes you’re an item, too, if they can. However, this only annoys the Savants*, even if they OFTEN succumb and start a relationship of convenience with the Normal Person*, but never truly commit to them – even if they TRIED to brainwash themselves to fall in love with that person.

An Savant* shouldn’t fall for this strategy, and just answer the attention with NO attention if possible. Whatever you do, the Normal Person* will think you don’t even see them, as they’ll do EVERYTHING in their power to both get your attention and to give attention, and they don’t know how you can’t understand they are READY TO COMMIT TO YOU, whenever you’re ready!

If you want to get rid of the Normal Person*, introduce them to someone just as eager. You can even state it so: “Look, I’m so busy with work, you need someone who can show you the attention you deserve…” Then stop showing them attention, but make sure the willing party will keep showering your “ex” with attention until they marry. You’ll be celebrating a wedding not soon after, and the good news is: You won’t be the groom nor the bride. 😀

The attention is for the seduction period only, however.

Suppose you get into a relationship with the Normal Person*, you might want to know that the attention is supposed to cool off a bit and the relationship is turning into more of a routine. The Normal Person* get married, and they assume a certain marital role, rather than continue a romance with the person they’re in love with like the Savants* do (when married to the right person, that is.)

Once committed, the Normal Person* don’t feel the need to truly MAINTAIN the relationship, as they believe in “forever after no matter what”, and they can even cheat on each other quite shamelessly as long as they are discrete about their extramarital affairs. (Only let your best friends know.) If they get caught cheating, their Keen spouse will be angry about being the last one to know, NOT about the cheating itself, but the embarrassment of not knowing it before outsiders did. If they find out themselves, they’re likely quite unphased about it.

(Mind you, the Savants* love attention from their chosen one, too.)

Just a footnote, the Savants* love attention from their True Emotion Mirror, too, it’s just that they won’t fall in love with attention alone.

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