True Emotion Mirror sexuality is in the soul

This is a difficult topic to write about because there is so much to say about True Emotion Mirror sexuality and yet I want to say so little. 🙂 It is such an intimate thing, but also so wild and raw, that you’d rather keep it to yourself. Yet, it’s so powerful, that even people who observe you can feel the sexual bond that you share. However, I’m just going to have to deal with that particular discomfort.

Utter Terror

I will get the easy part over with first. 🙂 When the True Emotion Mirror couple isn’t completely attuned, what often best describes their sexual experience would be UTTER TERROR. With so much at stake, every step you take seems taunting and never as much when we get close to the True Emotion Mirror. This is to say that even if you find yourself terrified, or not quite as at ease with your True Emotion Mirror as you’d like, it is not a question of this is not your True Emotion Mirror.

Even if fear is present, the constant longing for your True Emotion Mirror doesn’t leave you in peace; it can be like every pore of your body was crying for them with no complete surrender. The fear to get close and the need to be there will combine into devastation, an instinctive knowledge that letting yourself go here will potentially cause you serious pain later on when the True Emotion Mirror leaves you. Sometimes this fear in itself enough to send a True Emotion Mirror running.

Fear of embarrassment and ruining it

If the fear of the feelings themselves isn’t enough, then, there’s the situation with a growing state True Emotion Mirror, where you’re simply awkward around each other. You love this person to their core, you admire them, and want so badly to get it right, that no matter how experienced you are in sexuality, you may feel like a moronic virgin again. The chances that your first experiences together are robotic and “performy”, or require a good helping of King Alcohol, is super high. You may be trying hard to not show your nerves, and men especially have a high chance of losing erection simply because emotions are running way higher than is comfortable.

Happy Tears

When aligned, emotionally ready, and secure, the union easily takes you into that place that you never thought you’d go to; crying. They say that if you love your partner, you will always look into their eyes during lovemaking, but even the thought of it make my eyeballs burn. Even taking the shortest of a glance would cause such an emotional reaction that I am afraid my frail body would not be able to withstand it. This same intense burning can turn a simple dance at the local dance club into the most erotic experience of your life, skin burning with a desire that turns hands into branding irons.

There is hardly a description that will be an overstatement, there is so much pain and relief in every single moment – and then at another time it can be the easiest, simplest, most comfortable experience ever. Never ever believe the people who say that Twin Flame relationships are not about sex, as some people call them. There’s the word “flame” in there for a reason. True Emotion Mirror love is, without any doubt, highly sexual.

See if you can find the song “Bilingual” by Jose Nunez. This is what it is.

Taboos become non-taboos

In a mature True Emotion Mirror bond, all sexual taboos should be disappearing one by one, all of them – you should be able to find the pure version of every kink known to man… Except maybe getting turned on by balloons. 😉 TrEmors rarely clash in what they consider sexy – his desire becomes her desire and vice versa – unless social stigma still persists in them. There is always a loving, pure, and respectful form to every “perversion” and at best, your True Emotion Mirror, and you will find your way there together.

Challenge your imagination. Take the last thing you would do sexually and imagine a situation where you would be fine with it (burning for it) with your True Emotion Mirror. This doesn’t mean you would necessarily GO THERE, but most taboos will become conceivable options, given the right circumstances, at least on a theoretical level.

This is a contact of souls, not only bodies

This sexuality does not come from body contact, but from the contact of the soul. This is the reason why the body doesn’t matter when you burn for your True Emotion Mirror’s touch no matter who (or what, or what gender or age) they are. The True Emotion Mirrors create a sense of heat in the root, chakral, and heart chakra, and I would be ready to claim that there is an additional energy point in the mouth/lip area, that comes alive with a True Emotion Mirror.  When kissing a True Emotion Mirror, the whole face becomes tingly and heated in a way that it would never do in a normal kiss; nearly morphing into the other person. (Okay, that may sound a bit alieny on a second read. :D) As this is a soul connection, a body is not even needed for this experience to take place.

Telepathy helps us to know exactly what to do and how with our True Emotion Mirror. Unfortunately, a lot of women think that lacking this ability makes a man a lousy lover, but the fact is that if this doesn’t happen the man is simply not her True Emotion Mirror. (Provided that you are aligned and gotten over the utter terror phase.) When you find yourself dissatisfied with the fact that your lover doesn’t read your mind, you are probably used to, in a previous lifetime, that your lover DOES read your mind. When me and my True Emotion Mirror talked about this (telepathically), the sheer frustration came out as a mutual gasp: “Your lovers HAVE TO be able to READ MINDS!!” Crap sex comes with people who can’t read minds! Geesh! 😀

As we are, in fact, capable of reading each other’s minds, the sexual experience does not need to happen in the same room, the same country, or even on the same continent. The soul will ‘deliver the message’ wherever your bodies may be.

The desire is there or easily ignited, but…

Granted, not all of this is readily available with every True Emotion Mirror connection. The connection develops over time, it starts as a crush and ends wherever it ends. The intense desire must be there or else it’s the wrong kind of a True Emotion Mirror, but everything else takes some lifetimes to develop.

I don’t want to flatten this, but I say this in order not to make you panic if this is something you haven’t yet experienced. The gates might open for you in this lifetime, as we are perfectly capable of going from zero to a hundred in one lifetime. If it was available from the word go, it would kind of suck not to be able to discover this, wouldn’t it? The opening of the flower is much more exciting than having the flower handed to you readily open.

Can a True Emotion Mirror handle a marriage?

True Emotion Mirrors can suffer from marriage if entered into TOO SOON. When True Emotion Mirrors are trying to align, there is a danger that you both rush into sealing the deal before allowing the relationship to mature fully. Once you enter a marriage, your next step is to try and preserve it at all cost. This means that you’ll step carefully around your True Emotion Mirror, you start hiding your true thoughts and feelings from them in the fear of losing them, and worst of all, you’ll easily start looking for signs of losing them (to someone else). You may be doubting your good luck, and you see danger signs where there isn’t any, and you’ll create the very thing you fear: the deterioration of the connection.

You may also start treating love and expressions of love as a debt payable, as in if you don’t get the date night he or she promised, you’ll start demanding love as if it was a payment of debt rather than the gift they were supposed to be.

On top of that, your friends and family will be involving themselves in your relationship, and if you’re not iron glad by this stage, that’s rarely good news. Well-intentioned family members can easily start using proverbial sledgehammers to force eggs into their own cups, so to speak, and use MUCH too much force in “supporting” your marriage whenever a small crack appears.

Therefore, I’d strongly advise against letting anyone else in your relationship in any way no matter how much you’re dying to brag until you are solid and secure in your love and sexual relationship.

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