How simple make-up may screw up your love life

This is going to sound so stupid that I apologise in advance. Make-up and fashion are some of the most infuriating things in terms of true love. I am one of the victims of this belief; you have to prep yourself up in order to be sexy – thank God I grew up, but maybe a little too late. Then again, we also believe that your true love should love you no matter what you look like. Both beliefs are false.

Our souls have a style. Our physical expression is only the physical expression of our souls, it is not it’s prison, it is literally “What I would look like if I was physical.” If we allow fashion expectations tamper with our soul’s look, we are being inauthentic. This is something that the best fashion consultants know; They have to find the True You in your New Style. If they go with too rigid rules, they’re going to f*** up your style, and if you follow them blindly, it’s not going to do you good.

One of my soulmates has ALWAYS, in all incarnations had a moustache for as long as moustache existed. It is his trademark, without a moustache he looks off. His whole demeanour changes, but since the tash  is like the wrongest thing to rock at the moment, he has chosen to shave it off even though he’s clearly not happy with a clean shaven face – nor the beard that he’s trying to replace it with. (I wish I was in contact with him so I could tell him to stop messing with the perfect thing. :)) A small change like that, in order to “update one’s look” can be the thing that keeps you from your true life path and also from your true love, because it is not just a moustache, it’s a part of your soul’s expression, and forcing yourself away from it interferes with everything you are.

Wearing the latest fashionable hair-cut that you are not sure about is the worst thing you could do, and also applies to men. (If you’ve always rocked a long hair, don’t cut it short simply because you turned 30.) Hair should only follow fashion when you feel strongly that this is something you love.

Fashion is similar, but not as bad. If you have any emotional pull towards an era of fashion, try to bring that into your clothing, because it well may work as a clue for his memory to find you with. It’ll work like a secret, subliminal message when you find the right thing. One thing to consider; if you are religious or believe this is something you would have been like; someone who would not have worn make-up in previous life times because it wasn’t expected (only whores would wear make-up) you probably should not use any now, at least not all the time.

Make-up, especially if you wear it according to the latest fashion rather than what you genuinely like, will do a lot more damage than good. Essentially, you are wearing a mask on your face, a mask that can literally hide who you are. If in your previous incarnations you haven’t worn make-up, your soulmate is simply not going to know if you’re the same person or not when they see you.

There is two things you should avoid as much as you dare; foundation, face-powder and lipstick. For one thing, they mess with the smell of your face when he leans to kiss you, and this will make it impossible for him to find your scent. Speaking of scents, avoid perfumes for the same reason. Non-scented deodorants work best, unless, again, you love perfumes, if that is the case, your soulmate will probably love the same scent that you love. The point of this post is to encourage you to find your own style and stick to it disregarding all comments about how outdated some of it might be. If you can’t find an updated look that suits your style, stick with the old.

Word of warning though: You also need to sense your own style, even if it’s the latest thing, if being up with the latest fashion is something you feel strongly about then this is probably something your soulmate will miss about you if you start ignoring fashion. If you are one of those girls who always change their hair-colour, style and make-up almost on a daily basis looking completely different from one day to the next, this is probably something your  soulmate is used to and expects you to be, and loves about you. He will be looking for your eyes more keenly than the other men, so don’t worry about losing love for your love for fashion. As with everything, go with your heart rather than advice, but just trust me on one thing: Men are not as shallow as we are told they are. It is safe to be who you feel you are.

The final: You might look fit for the Vogue cover but if you don’t feel genuinely that this is you, you shouldn’t stick with the look just because someone told you to. If you love fashion, ignore this.

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