Cannot bond with your child?

Sometimes bonding with a child can be extremely difficult, and it can lead to all sorts of emotional problems starting from guilt and depression because your hopes and dreams of the mother-child bond simply did not come to pass. You may feel inadequate as a parent, someone who is incapable of loving their own child… What could be worse? Sometimes the bonding doesn’t happen at all, and the child grows up without truly knowing their mother or their parents at all, or you them. You live with strangers. What if I told you there is nothing wrong with any of you?

The moment that the mother falls in love with their new born baby has nothing to do with biology, genetics or their ability to love. Nothing. Absolutely nothing! What it is, is soul mates meeting. They’ve known each other for ions, and this is their first reunion in a long time. Nothing to do with biology, and everything to do with soul bonds! If you don’t feel that way, don’t think your child was born to the wrong woman, that is not the case, either. It’s just that for some reason, even if it seems completely illogical, that child needed you as a parent. This might mean that they need to find a way to stand on their own two feet, they have to learn to fend for themselves because they are essentially alone in the world. This is essential to their development as a soul, not as a child, and you are the key in this. That is just one possibility, but there is a reason.

Your child might grow up wishing they were adopted, because they simply don’t fit in. That is normal without a soul bond child. There is much more information about soul bonds on this website, and I’ll leave you with it… But I just need to tell you that there is nothing wrong with you nor your child if the bonding doesn’t happen. If you found this post, it may mean that you just need to learn to appreciate one another, your differences and learn to love their unique being as an individual, someone not connected to you, but someone you have a wonderful opportunity to get to know well.

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