A Trail Companion* may turn into a True Emotion Mirror through changing their authentic self

Don’t get your hopes up, BUT there is a theoretical chance that a Trail Companion* will turn into a True Emotion Mirror. (And the other way around.) It is so rare, that I am second-guessing whether or not to include this at all, but I will just to make sure the theory is accurately described. (This is the part of the story where I got confused and thought all soulmates exist on a scale rather than on/off -mode. However, the barrier between a True Emotion Mirror and a Partial one exists within each of us; our desire to be who we are; not time precisely.)

The reason why Trail Companions* are only partial is because their authentic being is not compatible with your authentic being. This is not about your current, inauthentic expression that’s incompatible with your True Emotion Mirror, but the compatibility of your most authentic true you, and the person you are thinking as your soulmate. We have been moulding ourselves from the moment that the Universe begun to form, before the first atomic particle moved, before time began. We already had an idea of what we were – at least the oldest of us did. It was that idea that pushed the Universe into existence. Little by little, we made changes into our being, we cultivated ourselves, we chose what we wanted to become… And there lies the small chance.

Not everyone has a True Emotion Mirror, but everyone has Potential and Partial ones. This is because not everyone has thought they’d enjoy being a person that loves so fully. Similarly we choose our other qualities, and most of the choices have been made well before this current life time of yours. You will never be able to change someone into something they don’t really enjoy being. You can force them to compromise on their behaviour, but you can’t change who they are. However, you can change yourself, and you can make that change fast, in an instant, if you are truly inspired to do so.

If it happens that you or your soulmate look upon each other in such a way that they TRULY enjoy to be more like you, an authentic change may happen and they may change from a Trail Companion* into an Undecided (previously Potential) Spirit Mirror. This change can only happen if the person changing so wishes, without force or pressure. True love only happens between people who enjoy who they are in their core and meet another person who is an Destination Soulmate to the other one’s true being and enjoy being together! They are not exactly the same as each other, they are exactly compatible.

As I wrote earlier, we love each other so much we want to become more like each other. We want to be them, or more like them. The separation phase may function as your chance to become the person your Trail Companion* needs you to be, but clearly there should never be any expectation on anyone to do that. Which one of you should change anyway? It’s always them, isn’t it? You can only change yourself if you want to create this connection, and it is almost impossible to do consciously with that goal in mind. Remember that always: It can only be you who aspires to change. If you don’t want to change for them, then you have no right even wishing for them to change for you. And THAT is a Trail Companion* sign. True Emotion Mirrors see each other as being amazing the way they are, something to thrive to become, even when they sometimes feel the other one is not living up to their full potential. (Be careful not to confuse the necessity of turning from an inauthentic or weakened state to the authentic true self for “change”. “Change” in this context means changing your current authentic self so that you’ll form another authentic state for yourself.)

What is an authentic self?

Your Authentic self is the person you enjoy to be and would consciously choose to be if you felt you could. An authentic self is the version of each of us that is unaffected by societal norms or expectations, guilt or shame, the person you’d enjoy to be or become. This is the person that is discovered when a person feels that they are free to choose for themselves and live their lives as they choose without shoulds and musts like a grown up. The authentic self functions differently in different situations, and may look very much ‘inauthentic’ to some people, but the easiest way to say whether you are in an authentic state is to ask yourself whether you are doing something because you feel it’s appropriate or because you want to. We are a sum of our wants, and when we function from our wants we are being authentic. Your authentic being also evolves in time. It gets refined. When one person is in their authentic state angry and resentful due to the circumstances surrounding them, when the circumstances change, their authentic expression changes, too. An inauthentic person tries to suffocate the anger and resentfulness, and becomes a hypocrite – inauthentic. The stronger your character is, the more stress you can withstand on a good mood, keeping at whatever it is that you’d be doing in the best of circumstance, but the authentic person should never stifle their reactions or try to suppress their emotions. World teaches you quick, because we don’t like people who react abruptly, so then you have to decide whether you want to be a person who loses their temper at the first provocation, or do they behave themselves – and also that is an authentic you. Something that I recently learned: “I am a person who likes to decline dinner invitations, because I don’t like dinner parties. But I don’t want to be a person who cancels them at the last minute.” Situations change, you have to learn to navigate this world as close to your authentic being as possible. You will not be able to do that without a fail every time, because there are other people in this world, but the more you get accustomed in living in an authentic state, the more you learn to predict and plan for your authentic self and it’s happiness.

This is where it gets confusing: You are a person who likes to make everyone happy, so you go along with things because you feel you should. In the end, you don’t feel like you made anyone happy and you didn’t enjoy what you did for everyone. That’s inauthentic. An authentic person would find THEIR WAY to make others happy, and enjoy every minute of creating happiness in those they care about, even though they tell them “Oh I can’t come and help tonight”, simply because they don’t want to help them (that way or that day). Do you want to be dependable or free? Do you want to make others happy the way they ask you to or perhaps keep surprising them with nice things you do – without being asked? All answers are correct answers, it’s all about the way YOU want to be known.

The authentic self of each one of us is DIFFERENT to each individual. Each of us can live in an authentic state from Infant soul age level phase 1 all the way to Ancient, even though at Child soul age they follow rules and guidelines given to them by others, but because that is where they genuinely are at, that is what their authentic self does! This is what I mean when I say “Don’t put the cart in front of the horse” or “Don’t try to be better than what you are”. Do whatever you feel you need to do or want to do at any given moment in time, and stop expecting your soulmate to twist themselves to inauthenticity because you want them to.

Your authentic self feels bad when forced or coaxed into a situation they don’t want to be in, and feels liberated when you decide to do as you know you need to do. These questions are especially important when choosing a career. Are you happy and proud of the work you do, or are you just scared to do what you wish to do? Do you enjoy the thought of going to work in the morning or do you wish you could finally do what it is that you want to be doing?

If a person changes the way that they want to be known as, they have changed their authentic being.

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