How do I use The Law of The Truest Wish to get my ex or Spirit Mirror back?

In a word; you don’t. This is one of the few things that The Law of The Truest Wish does not control directly. There is a lot you can do, but first you have to get it out of your mind that you could simply decide you want someone and they’d come to you like a robot, even if they loved you. The spiritual work that we sometimes do in order to attract our lost Personality Mirrorsback to us does not mean “willing” them into submission. The spiritual work is intended for you to release them rather than tightening your grip, and it’s meant to get you to screw your head back on straight so that when you are ready, you won’t fuck things up on your turn! There is a level of LOA-like forces in play, yes, and this is where we get confused: Just when you gave up trying, just when you were at the bottom of your well, just as you were contemplating suicide, just as you were the happiest you had ever been, just as you thought you didn’t even want a relationship – you’ve all heard those stories, right? These have nothing to do with your story.

We must make ourselves ready. That is the goal. Then wait. That is the hardest part. You don’t know if they are ready, and don’t you start looking over the fence now peering in whether they’re doing their work or not, because you don’t know which one has issues left – I swear I felt ready years ago, and now I’m like What The Fuck Was I Thinking?! What “ready” means to each individual also differs, and it changes as you gain life experience and start packing on expectations and wishes for yourself (which I fully encourage you to do) but our soulmates won’t return to us before we are ready. That is the part that we must accept, and they certainly won’t return if the only thing we can truly focus on is “why isn’t he here yet?!” (Unless that functions as your cue to look into yourself and find that reason.) You don’t know what you are waiting for, so you might as well use that time to your best advantage. There’s always deeper you can go and higher you can climb, and maybe that means you’ll grow past your soulmate, but that means you’ll fall out of love with them and find someone more advanced.

Law of Attraction will work in your request to find a way to find true love, or even to find a way to bring your True Emotion Mirror to you – but it won’t work as “Why isn’t he here yet? I’m much more advanced than he is, and he must do his part!” Complaints will get you nowhere. His soul is watching, and won’t let himself take any steps towards reunion before you are both ready. And God does stop any desperate attempts too, unless you have a freaking death wish for your relationship.

If you beat yourself up for being too hopeful or not hopeful enough on a moment to moment basis – do you think he’s going to evaporate into the thin air on his way to you if you have a wrong thought..? Because I do. 😉 …but he won’t, of course.

This is also not a balancing act of emotions. If you think about it, it would mean that two people, without knowing of each other, must feel equally elated at the same time in order to be together. I tried. Didn’t happen. Me and my True Emotion Mirror Anton were so high on love in a telepathic connection, that if it was possible for us to have floated in the air, we would have. We felt it, we felt that this was the day. It was all ready, it would happen, it was heaven on earth. Nope. It didn’t. “It’ll happen when you least expect it.” also isn’t true. I don’t know when I’ll expect it least, but right now would be a perfect example; I’m sitting in my house alone with no reason for anyone to come knocking on my door, I do not, to the slightest expect it to happen right now, and it’s not happening – so that can’t be true either.

So how does it happen? When everything is ready for you to live your romance from top to bottom exactly as you’ve wanted it (mostly unconsciously perhaps) with challenges and troubles topping of the dramatic twists and turns it takes for a true romance to take place… When all it set, you have cleared every psychological issue that will prevent you from having the most amazing love story has been sorted out (for both/all of you), and when you are both grown up, or just as fucked up as you need to be for your perfect romance… If you can’t understand why – imagine the love stories you’ve heard or read about and compare their events to your life right now… What intrigued you? Similarities there perhaps? Did you bawl your eyes out at the movies watching a tragic love story unfold thinking “stuff like that would never happen to me” but with the sweetest of wish that it would? Here you have it. Now, what do you do? Would you have watched that movie with such emotion if the heroine was there sitting in her room complaining about how much of an idiot her true love was and how much he loses out for not being with you? Or how you don’t trust his loyalty to you or whatever ugly thoughts you’re having about him at the moment… Or would you have rather seen the heroin start an art class that she can pour out her undying love for a man who left her for no reason, or hiding her sweet love for him in her heart or the pages of a diary? Which one of these heroines would you want to see win back their true love?

Now go be that heroine that deserves his man’s love. Create a home for him in your life. Prepare yourself for him.

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