There are few things you can study in order to figure out the background of your True Emotion Mirror relationship. It is never  as simple as “boy meets girl, girl meets boy, boy and girl fall in love and have babies”, but there is a lot more to it. (Precious Soulmates*are simple and effortless, even Trail Companions* are very close to it, but True Emotion Mirrors take everything that is true you to function seamlessly.)

Free Spirit origin

I believe that our Universe is our playground. It is intended for us to live freely and without restrictions from anyone but each other for as long as we feel there is need for restrictions on ourselves. We were born free spirits with free will – unobstructed free will – but we put limitations one each other in order to live in peace (safety) amongst each other. Now, the fear of difference has taken the limitations to an extreme, and now it’s time to start unravelling them, because we are older and wiser but limited by baby soul rules. Our aim is to get back to our authentic selves without interfering with the freedom of other souls.

The freedom of choosing who you want to be

Is essential in the light of the previous point. The Universe was created so that each of us would have the chance of living our authentic lives in the way that we choose, and that means we must decide who we are. We have the potential to be ANYTHING, nothing is decided for you, you choose one thing at a time what is important to you, what you are willing to change about yourself so that you gain something else and what you are not willing to change. There are no right or wrong answers, there are simply opportunities that you take on or pass on based on your idea of who you are. Let’s say you want a camera. You find one, and you can choose between taking it to the lost and found or keep it – that choice is a reflection of who you are. Another, more difficult and to the point of this website, choice is this: Your True Emotion Mirror is polygamistORpolygynandrist. You love all of their spouses, but you are heterosexual. We all have the potential of being attracted to both sexes, but we either stop it or we allow it. Most of us have made that choice a LONG TIME ago, and have already assigned their sexual preference. (I know that’s unpopular but it does guarantee you the importance of free choice, one that is given to you by God. So if any of you Bible bashers read this and go “I told you so” you must also accept that homosexuality is a choice no different than heterosexuality is. God has no preference one way or another. He generally doesn’t concern himself much about where people stick their penises, that’s more a human preoccupation.) Okay, so you have a choice of joining a polygamousORpolygynandrous family with people you love but don’t know whether you desire them or are bothered with sharing partners: now you have 3 options; walk away and find another monogamist, join the family but only be sexually involved with your chosen gender, or you can open up your bisexual vault and enjoy both genders. All perfectly acceptable choices that reflect who you truly are.

The True You, Authenticity, Weakened State and Past Lives

As we go through life times after life times choosing qualities to ourselves and ridding ourselves from those we don’t want to be a part of our authentic selves, (you should consider yourself a work of fiction you keep editing. Nothing about you is written in stone) we become a certain way. Our True Emotion Mirrors are those souls that resonate perfectly with who you are. Their freely chosen qualities fit perfectly with the qualities you chose, and your union is perfect. We do not change quickly, because we must carefully consider each  change that we make – often. Most often you also choose qualities that make you fit in better with your True Emotion Mirror – but never out of force but out of being inspired by them. I can tell from personal experience that these unions can last millions of years, and can have started before the Earth was created! You also don’t need to stay with anyone who’s values no longer jive with yours, nor do you have to be careful of a choice you regret because it’s always an experiment that you can leave behind if it doesn’t work for you.

Now, our past lives give us a lot of clues about who we truly are. They can point to a path you have never taken, or map out the entire road to happiness step by step. Whenever you follow other people and their idea of who you are, you are pushed away from your authentic path, but it still tells something about you: You are in a Weakened State that prevents you from taking your own path. A lot of the time this path leads anywhere but towards your True Emotion Mirror, (unless they’re following the same inauthentic path as they often do, but that will also dampen their authentic feelings for you and their love for you and yours for them will be obstructed and not felt thoroughly. That is why “true love” seems rare.)

Running motivation based on a person’s natural inclination towards polygamyORpolygynandry¹ or monogamy

Our natural inclination towards monogamy or polygamyORpolygynandry² is one of those paths that your life is pointing towards but you might not be ready or willing to take. It also tells a lot about the running instincts of our True Emotion Mirrors . We have lots of potential True Emotion Mirrors , again, people who have made the same life choices and value judgements as you have, and it’s just a question of whether or not you want to ‘go there’. Now, this means that we all have a free choice, and that we can make a new choice in every life time, the possibility of several relationships and sexual freedom does change the way True Emotion Mirror relationships work in current time. Our natural inclination is visible even when we have not chosen polygamyORpolygynandry³ over monogamy (at this time), and that is something that you should be aware of when you try to sort out your relationship and motivations for your soulmates’ running behaviour or commitment problems, and prepare yourself for true love with a someone you know or someone who haven’t met yet. Remember we do have True Emotion Mirrors that end up choosing the same thing even though they’d never done that before, and the choice must be genuine and done without fear in order to keep the bond real. So you need to make a decision for yourself and for yourself only, and allow change only when it starts to intrigue you.

Soul Age

Your soul age level is partially a factor in how your life choices are made and how your True Emotion Mirror relationship works. Although named “soul age”, this has virtually nothing to do with the age of your soul in years, only your level of authenticity. However, we can be “unrefined” if we have had million life times spent under societal rules, never attempting to decide anything for ourselves. We create our self-image over life times of choices and un-choices and that makes us more refined. This is not very well described in the Soul Age levels, but what is the best thing about them is that it shows the direction we should be going and the point in which we are currently. People who don’t commit to personal development have very little chance of evolving past the Mature soul age level in a whole life time.

The closer to Ancient soul age level (or development level)  will have an effect on how your relationship looks like and how much intensity is involved, because earlier development levels do  not allow authenticity that is required for a True Emotion Mirror “explosion”, only a relationship that has very little resemblance of True Emotion Mirror description.

Law of Attraction & Timing

The Law of The Truest Wish and timing play a part in the way you can train yourself to be more comfortable with your Authentic State. LOTTW follows what you want to “try on your soul”, see if it fits – good or bad, it is simply something that you’ve thought “I wonder” about… or “that would be exciting!” LOTTW is a tool for discovering what you truly want to be, and a way to do that more consciously rather than creating a life on whimsical thoughts inspired by watching the telly. 😀

1. Depending on context. Some time ago, I used the term polygamy to mean either the generic concept of polygamous marriage or a MM+FF+ -type marriage or poly-committed relationship. ↩

2. Depending on context. Some time ago, I used the term polygamy to mean either the generic concept of polygamous marriage or a MM+FF+ -type marriage or poly-committed relationship. ↩

3. Depending on context. Some time ago, I used the term polygamy to mean either the generic concept of polygamous marriage or a MM+FF+ -type marriage or poly-committed relationship. ↩

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