My True Emotion Mirror is twice/half my age?!

Yes. It happens. Enjoy while it lasts. 😉

No, seriously speaking, it’s a challenge, but you’ll do what you need to do. The younger half’s parents may have issues but they’ll have issues with True Emotion Mirrors regardless. The problem being, that they’ll sense their child having CLEAR sexual chemistry with this person, and it’s still difficult for parents to gut. It doesn’t MATTER what your True Emotion Mirror is; parents are always going to have an issue with them – unless they’ve experienced the same kind of love themselves. It’s just that a big age difference is an easy thing to point out as a “problem.” Otherwise, it would be something a little harder to sell; his hair’s too long, her skirt’s too short, your partner’s parents are from the wrong side of the river… True Emotion Mirrors freak out people who are not.

Is it so good you’re afraid to accept it can be that good… Or is there a nagging feeling that it isn’t as good as it is, and you’re trying to encourage yourself to go for it, to take a risk? Are you trying to talk yourself into it or out of it? Go with your gut, not with your head – as in, whatever you’re trying to tell yourself to be the truth, is the wrong answer.

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However… Since this is always difficult, there is ONE THING YOU will need to contemplate for yourself because you cannot trust your parents or your friends to make this decision for you… Are you POSSIBLY, are you SURE you’re not getting involved with a person with a narcissistic personality disorder or a borderline personality disorder? Those mimic the True Emotion Mirror bond quite closely, but the truth is, YOU KNOW. Don’t talk yourself out of what you know to be true; this is true love, or you are fooling yourself, and you will get burned. Are you selling yourself a fantasy? Is someone else selling you a fantasy? How badly do you think it can go if you simply can’t tell? How far are you willing to risk it to see what it is? Draw yourself a line now, one that you HONESTLY think you should honor, and then HONOR IT. Do not give yourself limits that you know are “warning signs’ that you pretend to be “the line” now, stuff you can still ignore when you get to it; draw yourself a clear line, the cut-off point, the place where you WILL walk away, no matter what.

At the end of the day, I promise you this: You’ll sleep easier with the mistakes you made yourself than those you let yourself be talked into making.

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