Is there any certainty that the Runner will stop when the Chaser stops?

This is a topic request, and one that I do feel is quite a difficult one to put into words, hence there’s so much confusion about it. The first thing we all must accept is that TRICKERY won’t work with True Mirrors. If you simply stop chasing physically, you may still be doing it emotionally, and that counts for chasing. But here’s the most annoying part of it; You can’t really say for sure if you ARE chasing but should! We tend to be runners when we think we’re chasers, because we are too scared to say anything, so we leave it up to the other to decide whether you’re really interested or not. This is the human part of this relationship, you may be True Mirrors of the most intense kind, ancient True Mirrors, and if neither one of you has the courage to say anything, you’re BOTH running rather than chasing.

Always ask yourself this in anything you do in life: “What do I feel like doing?” I feel like throwing a temper tantrum, kicking and screaming, I feel like running to him and giving him a hug, I feel like calling her on the phone and crying my eyes out to her telling her I’ve never loved anyone so much in my life – these are ALL correct answers. When I thought I was chasing my True Mirrors (two of them, one after the other), with the first one I always had this frustrated need to cuff him on my radiator and telling him to stay put because I want him. On a hind sight, talking to his soul, that is exactly what he wanted me to do. Pretty much LITERALLY. The message he needed was that he was WELCOME TO STAY, and that I WANTED him to stay. Because I never said anything much, he thought I wasn’t that into him at all, and all he was doing was going through a whole heap of pain for a girl who didn’t give a toss. Another one, even more obvious True Mirror, I had this incredible need to kick him in the chin bone just to wake him up to reality. I SHOULD HAVE attacked him and demanded an answer. I should have pushed him against the wall and told him that I KNOW he loves me, but I didn’t – I ran. Both of them are now on the opposite side of the world to me, and I have no way of contacting them other than potentially outdated email address (that I have spammed to death). I am too much of a chicken to call him after everything I’ve told him in the mail… But more to the point I feel it’s not the right time. – Follow your instincts.

To answer the question of certainty – no, there isn’t, but if you tell your Mirror honestly how you feel, follow your instinct to the LETTER, work directly from the soul and let out frustrations by doing exactly what you want to do, then yeah, the chances of you making it are high. (That goes for you guys, too. You want to do unspeakable things to her? She probably wants you to. Be sensible of course, but don’t hide your demons from her.) What might come between you is social issues, tradition, marriages and children, but those will take care of themselves in time if you two keep communicating.

I’ll make you another prediction. If you don’t say anything, if you don’t do anything, if you let every opportunity pass that you might have to (re)connect, you will not ever get there. You have to earn it, one way or another. If you’re as terrified of them as I was, try talking to their soul (by using a pendulum for example or if you can hear them in your mind, just talk to them in your mind) to get familiar with his or her soul and work out what they want and need that way. It will give you confidence to make your next move, but here’s another warning or promise; they don’t necessarily hear you on a conscious level because souls talk in private, apart from what they need to know.

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