Gender stereotypes; Not even all men are the same

Women love to keep repeating that not all women are the same, all women are individuals and blah blah, at the same time as they give generic rules on how to treat a woman. Each of them should only speak for oneself, but then, there is also the persistent saying; “all men are the same”… Which sadly doesn’t mean, to all people, that “all humanity is the same” let alone saying that all creation comes from the same source. However, we are not similar yet we maybe the same. This means that we all have the same need to be loved, cherished and wanted (either sexually or otherwise or most likely both) but we don’t all want that the same way. This is as true for men as it is for women, and it is true as much romantically, sexually as it is true professionally and in friendships.

I bring this up as I fear some might think that I am only emphasising gender stereotypes rather than dispelling them by saying that men have to have the freedom to be a chauvinistic, whore-loving bastards, but although I do think they should have that freedom, I also know full well that not all men are the same, and not all men like women like me, nor should they. I don’t necessarily love all men, either, but I do feel a lot of sympathy for most men, simply through appreciating their problems… Some of them I find down right irritating – usually the ones who are heroic defending the honour of “good women” who have gotten them manipulated into thinking that they are such, although wouldn’t know virtue if it hit them on the head on a dark alley way.

Times change, tides change, and that changes the way we see one another and how people see us. The wise try to see people without social conditioning, but that is a hell of a difficult task. We are all influenced by it, and the more polite we are, the less likely we are to want to see the truth. At any rate; the type of men I mostly defend and blog about are obviously the types of men I like to see liberated for my own, personal selfish needs. Any women who want to defend their own kind, please start a blog and tell me where to find it – let’s unite in defence of the men we love.

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