Quick FAQ on True Emotion Mirror-soulmates

How do I KNOW I have met my True Emotion Mirror soulmate?

There is usually a strong love at first sight experience (love/adoration, not just attraction nor familiarity, but pure absolute love). You will also know instantly, whether or not you fully believe it, is another thing.  That is your first clue, second is telepathy, that may take time to develop. If none of the normal soulmate signs are true to you, what is left is an intense sense of knowing, so intense, that you know nobody else will ever take their place, and that you would feel dead inside without them. Interestingly, if you don’t have that knowing, it still doesn’t mean this definitely isn’t the one, but that you may need to look elsewhere even if this person was meant to be guided to you later in life. In other words, if you can walk away from your soulmate, it is best to do so, but don’t force it. Essentially, sometimes you simply won’t know until it’s time for you to know. Once it is time for you to be together, you CANNOT stay away from each other.

What is the difference between a True Emotion Mirror, a True Emotion Mirror, a soulmate and a True Emotion Mirror?

True Emotion Mirrors and True Emotion Mirrors are practically interchangeable although some teachers consider them different. The True Emotion Mirror is theoretically (the belief of how and what it is) is a highly developed soulmate connection that is exactly the same as True Emotion Mirror / True Emotion Mirror, only the explanation of how the connection developed and other theoretical differences exist. (As in the difference of True Emotion Mirror and True Emotion Mirror is the same as the difference between God and Allah.) The difference between a soulmate and a True Emotion Mirror is that soulmate is a generic term: All plates are dishes, but not all dishes are plates; all True Emotion Mirrors are soulmates, but not all soulmates are True Emotion Mirrors . The True Emotion Mirror belongs into my Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology that is a part of the Free Spirit Theories.

True Emotion Mirror teachers consider soulmate to be a type of Trail Companion* and a True Emotion Mirror to be any number of the soulmate types identified in my typology, depending on a teacher and their personal experience on love relationships.

How do I end the separation phase from my soulmate?

You have to correctly identify the problem. A good place to start is to check out this video series. If you can’t find the solution there, further contemplation is required (and is very likely if this is a True Emotion Mirror*). The separation between soulmates is most likely caused by a misunderstanding, fear, personal insecurities, getting your fires crossed – and has nothing to do with external powers apart from people who wish to keep each partner to themselves… Even parents included. (The most complicated spiritual reason as you get is other people and their influence, or your own personal goals and idea of a perfect reunion. Meaning to say that “karma” “timing” and “spiritual work” etc. are all slightly too complicated ways of thinking about this.)

Is there a way to connect to my primary soulmate(s) if I haven’t met him/her/them yet or if we are not in speaking terms?

Yes. You can try connecting to them through a soul-level conversation, through meditation, using Tarot, telepathy or perhaps trying a pendulum. Try this post for advice on soulmate telepathy.

Why do soulmates separate?

The True Emotion Mirror relationship is so intense, that there is too many emotions involved for most couples. The separation isn’t inevitable (but seems so because it’s the separated who are crying out in pain on forums) but it’s common. The reason for it is unresolved personal issues that cause (mainly) self-esteem problems and thus disrupt the flow of love between soulmates.

What if my soulmate is married?

This is entirely a question of your own morals and the kind of person you want to be. Your True Emotion Mirror* wants you to be exactly the way you want to be – by definition – and therefore following any external advice on such huge matters is a risk, INCLUDING not pursuing the relationship when deep down you feel like that is the right thing to do.

Should I end my marriage to be with my True Emotion Mirror, the True Emotion Mirror?

In my opinion, yes, but similarly to the above, this is also completely dependent on your own moral code. In my view, it is always wrong to stay in an exclusive monogamous relationship with a person who you do not consider your first choice for a partner.

Is it possible that I will never be reunited with my soulmate?

Sadly, yes. However, it’s kind of hard to mess things up so badly that the reunion cannot happen. If this is a genuine fear in you, see a psychologist – the only thing keeping you apart is your heads. (Stop blaming the other, btw.) The Universe will not do all the work for you, but expect it to give you an opportunity for a reunion at the best possible time. (The Universe being a collective term to everything that influences your life, including the soul consciousness of your soulmate and yourself; on the soul level you are much more aware of where things are headed than in your everyday conscious mind, however, not as conscious as you’d want them to be – you need to inform your soulmate on your feelings even if you can’t do so in person, you must be free to inform his soul. Work on your self-awareness.)

How do I know if my soulmate is thinking of me?

This is such a complicated question to answer that it is best said that it is completely individual and the dangers of giving you false hope as much as removing hope when there is some is too big to take.

Can there be more than one True Emotion Mirror soulmate for one person?

Yes, according to my Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology, there is no limitation on how many of each soulmate types you can have. This does NOT mean an easy situation where if you can’t have that one you’ll take that one, but if you have more than one, your souls’ ultimate goal is to be united with all of them at once. If that sounds like it might be you, check out my posts relating to polygamyORpolygynandry1 – committed marriage-like relationships between several people.

Can soulmate couples be of same gender (gay/lesbian)?

Yes they can. There is also tons of different soulmate types around.

I can’t get over my soulmate, what do I do?

Give yourself a permission to love them as much as you can – ALLOW love for them to be there for the rest of your life. Getting over someone means you love them more than you love the idea of keeping them to yourself, and the  more you love someone the less you feel like you deserve to demand their love for yourself. Learn to adore each of their traits. Indulge in that privilege. (Sounds like work to you rather than a joy? Not your True Emotion Mirror.)

How to tell when my soulmate and I will be reuniting?

There is no certain way of knowing. Often you can cue in on the timing by identifying events that need to happen before you feel the situation would be perfect (ultimately romantic.) Imagine you had written a love story for yourself, if you wouldn’t allow this ending for the movie (it would feel like “ooo whaaat?! THIS is the best ending you can write? WHAT?!”), it won’t happen in your real life, either.

Is it possible for the other soulmate to be completely oblivious to the connection?

Yes it is. Often they are not completely oblivious to it, but they can have a variety of reasons why they can’t quite figure this out or want to/dare to believe their own intuition. Many of these reasons come from the soul level and cannot be changed by either of you. (Question of timing, often. You need to know, they need to not know.)

Do you mean soulmates literally or figuratively speaking?

I do mean them literally, but more often than not, you can take the word either way and not lose much of the information. Only, understanding the reincarnation lines and past life dynamics would help you figure out your relationships a whole lot easier and also, deeper. Consider taking that into account. However, ALL your relationships are soulmate relationships, EVERY ONE OF THEM. The question is, which kind?

1. Depending on context. Some time ago, I used the term polygamy to mean either the generic concept of polygamous marriage or a MM+FF+ -type marriage or poly-committed relationship. ↩

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