When is it right time to make contact with a True Emotion Mirror in a separation phase?

Everything we do in life based on other people’s recommendation is pretty much a misunderstanding of some kind. When someone has decided that the way to make a person fall in love with you is by not call them for 3 days so you don’t seem too desperate or eager probably worked for someone because that is what they’d do naturally, and then everyone in every part of the world now believe in the 3 day magic which has nothing to do with the actual success of the relationship.

Everything to do with love advice follows a similar pattern of “well it worked for them, therefore, I’ll do the same” despite the fact everyone is different and everyone’s relationship dynamic is different.

When we are talking about True Emotion Mirrors , their way of feeling is EXACTLY like yours, but they may rationalize things and mess things up, because if they behave from relationship advice based on arbitrary behavior that has nothing to do with their actual instincts, you don’t know what the hell it is that they are saying and vice versa. So… To answer the question “when to make a contact” the answer is: “when you know exactly what to say”.

But, to break this down further, I will have to encourage you to go against all other relationship advice, including True Emotion Mirror “do not chase” advice. When we force ourselves to BEHAVE against our true instinct, we will cause a false statement to what we want to bring across. Also, if you force yourself to “not chase” that can be interpreted as “snubbing them” or not being interested at all, and then, when you come back, it seems as if you’ve just gotten some other guy or girl out of your head and now you come back to the one you take for granted, right? When the real story is that this person, to you, is the Ultimate, so important that you feel you’ll die when they simply look at you, so  much that you don’t know what to say to them, but from their perspective, they are just another guy or girl to you, so they won’t understand why you wouldn’t be talking to them, other than because you’re busy with someone else or not interested in them at all, or trying to break the union .

To be clear, there is NO SPIRITUAL meaning for the “True Emotion Mirror separation period” it is simply people messing up their relationships because too many people try to help them act against their own instincts. The ultimate guide, for you, should always be your own instinct, albeit important that you do not mistake fear for your instinct, then again, fear is not always without a reason. It is truly better to do nothing than to run carelessly through a True Emotion Mirror’s heart and expect them to be cool with it, so be sensitive, and do what to you feels… Exciting. Exciting, romantic, thrilling, fun, sexy… All of these things that make love so incredible, don’t forget that these are the spices of life and serious chore-like approach to a true love relationship should be considered idiocy. 🙂

Also, don’t try to make up their mind about you on their behalf. They will have to decide what to think of you and this situation quite on their own. (That’s called letting go.)

Instinct. Fun. Sexy.

Go!

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