How can some people take a break up (from a True Emotion Mirror) so easily?

First, I have to tell you that there is a HUGE difference between being separated by force and being left by the other Mirror’s choice. Destination Soulmates will always want nothing but the other one’s happiness more than anything, and therefore, if their True Emotion Mirror is happier with someone else, the people who love them the most will let go of them without a fight, with nothing but best wishes in their hearts.

When, however, the True Emotion Mirrors is forcing themselves to separate from each other, or feel an outside force separating them, they can feel immense pain if they feel there is no point to the separation. Again, if the separation is for the best interest of one or the other, and thus, both, the pain eases significantly or disappears.

This should not be mistaken for the ego hurting for being rejected by someone a person feels should feel “happy to have me” and that them rejecting them is simple an offense to their dignity. “What would people think” is a sign of this reaction, too.

When the separation causes a huge amount of pain, it is a sign that it is not RIGHT at this moment, for you to be separated. It is likely, that the separation has been caused by a misunderstanding of some kind or denial of one’s own sexuality, as it often is, and as far as True Emotion Mirrors go, there is too many possible scenarios to even list, and I have written tons of posts of these situations. The more acute the pain, the more acute the need to understand why you are not together; what did you say or do to cause this? What did they say or do? It is time to really study the causes for the separation –  and they are HUMAN reasons, not “a test from the Universe” or a punishment or a life lesson of any kind… Apart from what it is that you need to know about this particular person and their reaction to your words or your reaction to his words: Did you misread each other? It is most likely something as simple as that.

This is also as spiritual as the reasons will ever go for the pain: Your True Emotion Mirror is holding onto you tight in spirit, refusing to leave your close visinity on the spiritual, so the closeness in spirit compared to distance in the physical create this enormous pain. If you cannot be together yet, it is best for each of your sanity to take distance in the spirit as well… Until you can be reunited.

Another reason for pain is that you LIKE IT. You wallow in it, because it makes you feel more in love. These are the moments when you simply repeat to yourself and remind yourself about the devastation you are enduring, and you cry in self-pity rather than in real pain. I had a moment like this. It lasted about 3 minutes.

“Oh why does this keep happening to me? Why can’t he just love me? Why am I so unlucky with men..?!” And then the thought hit me: “I am SO GRATEFUL TO KNOW I CAN LOVE LIKE THIS! I can FEEL SOMETHING THIS HUGE FOR SOMEONE! I AM THE LUCKIEST PERSON ALIVE!” I have never felt the pain again; I am lucky just to know a man like that, and to have him love me back would be something indescribable, and as such, something I do not need to cry about. Only a fool cries for not reaching the Moon.

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