People who don’t know how to be interesting without breaking something… Law, hearts, families, countries; whatever is valued by others.

There is a type of the Survivalist*who frustrates… The Idealists*. (They don’t seem to be a -amorist function, but to me, seem to be directly linked.) These people take attention-seeking WAY beyond posting selfies on Instagram; they want it so bad, all the time and from everyone, that they’ll break whatever is important to you only to have you scream obscenities at them… (Such as Amber Heard.) They’ll go after your job, possessions, relationships, heart, whatever you value, even themselves, only to have your attention. It is still unclear to me what it is that they hope to achieve by this, but I know it has something to do with the illusion of being automatically loved if they just get people’s attention. I have, so far, linked it to interrupted development as a child; for some reason, they still think like a toddler; when mommy and daddy pay attention to me, I’ll be safe and loved.

Ironically, the Idealists* would perhaps do the same thing to STOP someone from paying attention to them and from loving them. They’d break your favorite dishware or smash your beloved car to tell you that you and your feelings mean nothing to them. They want your heart broken, so you’d keep the hell away from them. The same strategy, again, means two entirely different things to these two types of people. The Idealists* would go for your MOST important possession and leave your kids and family alone. The Survivalist* will test you, I feel, with smaller stuff first, and if you don’t pay enough attention, they’ll progress to bigger stuff.

Even though not all the Survivalist* would break physical stuff, they try to break something else; your trust, hopes, and dreams; they’ll try and break your love for another person if they can – or your lover’s love for you. All this to tell you they need your love. A sapioamorsits would simply think: “Yeah, good luck with that strategy.”

These people are simply too stupid to know how to be interesting without breaking something or someone. The Idealists* best steer clear.

And the Survivalist* would now burst into tears: “But don’t you care at all we need love?” Frankly, kiddos, no, I don’t. You need to grow the f*** up and start acting your age, so no. Get your big boy or big girl pants on, stat.

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