Q&A; Why do I always wind up cheating on my girlfriend with her best friend?

If you find it a turn on that you are sleeping with your girlfriend’s best friend, it is definitely a sign of a natural polygynist man. If you were simply cheating on your girlfriend with whomever, that would be potentially different, but because it is the best friend that turns you on, this is definitely about search of polygamyORpolygynandry¹.

The thing is, you are MOST LIKELY drawn to women who have the same fetish, so they actually get turned on by the same guy finding them both attractive because no guy can come in between them to break them apart, and that is hot to them, and also, they don’t have to compete over who is the more attractive girl because their boyfriend can’t resist either one of them.

You should probably start looking for a pair of friends to be with you from the get-go, because it doesn’t suffer from the knowledge, the cheating isn’t the thing, a part of the excitement is KNOWING “my boyfriend is currently at it with my girlfriend”. All kinds of sexy mind games can follow. Start a dating profile and say you are looking for very close friends who would like to share a boyfriend and I think you’ll be off to a good start…

1. Depending on context. Some time ago, I used the term polygamy to mean either the generic concept of polygamous marriage or a MM+FF+ -type marriage or poly-committed relationship. ↩

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