True Emotion Mirror meeting point; how to meet your ultimate lover?

True Emotion Mirrors are people who you have an absolute authentic agreement on what is “perfection”. This is NEVER a question of “what if me and my True Emotion Mirror will disagree on something” because if you don’t agree on this thing, you are not True Emotion Mirrors , but something different. The actual sign of a True Emotion Mirror is that they want exactly what you want, and even if you didn’t always agree on everything, you do agree that disagreeing and fighting over stuff is the spice of life! Everything about them is perfect; even the imperfections, the grit that makes stuff interesting.

They are your reward for giving yourself the life you want

The True Emotion Mirror will always thrive to be where you want to be, so to make sure you are at your meeting point, you will have to become self-aware enough to say exactly where you want to be, so that when you cross that point on your life path, you know to stop there instead of running for the next train thinking you should be somewhere different.

Because your True Emotion Mirror is always your ultimate match, it only makes sense to meet where you both want to be. And even if your True Emotion Mirror was an electrician, he might be sitting at home at night denying the fact he wants to be a movie star. And, if he wants to be a movie star, you want that, too, or at least you’d want to have something to do with movies, so, while he is there denying what he wants, you can do the work and pave him the way. Chances are that your enthusiasm with catch and he’ll find a way there before you do, and you can follow in his footsteps perhaps, but the point is, your authentic goals always align!

Denying what you want is the same as denying true love

What we are always in danger of doing is to deny our true wishes for so long we are losing decades just trying to tell ourselves that what we want is not what we want, because it seems too modest or it seems too big. The longer you keep denying what you truly want, the longer it will take you to get there, so be honest. What is it?

So. Forget about everyone else for a moment and focus solely on what YOU want out of life. This maybe difficult because in your mind you think you SHOULD want something different to what you actually want, and you will find it difficult, at first, to identify what it is that you actually want. Many people feel pressured to achieve something big. Quite a few people feel pressured to settle for a lot less than what they actually want. Many feel pressured to want someone less or more than what they want, and I feel a lot of people who go after their True Emotion Mirror, feels that person is their True Emotion Mirror because they don’t really like that person… “My luck” right? No. Your True Emotion Mirror is never someone who you don’t like…  They maybe someone who you think you SHOULD NOT like, but they never are someone you don’t like.

Avoid the trap of “being realistic”

If you lower your goals just in order to “be realistic” you agree to potentially never meet your True lover, or you’re counting on them being equally willing to compromise… And I mean EQUALLY. They need to agree on the level of compromise with you, in order to settle for a half-way-there -point in perfection, and even then your life will not be perfect. You will need to keep denying aspects of who you both are, and the relationship will remain a little half-baked.

Your True Emotion Mirror will feel most comfortable approaching you when you are in your absolute authentic state, thriving and glowing; then they feel they can no longer hurt you even if things went real bad, and they feel they can safely approach. (The other option is to sink so low in life that they feel nobody else would have you now, so they might as well save you now – at least they genuinely love you even if you didn’t really want them, as they are likely to believe… There’s a lot of mixed emotions in play.)

Is who you think is your true love a compromise?

Many times I talk to people who I get this vibe from that they are compromising on a person they call their “True Emotion Mirror”. (They are most likely talking about a True Antagonist Mirror instead, but have mistaken some of the similar signs for a True Emotion Mirror.) If you feel like your True Emotion Mirror could be cooler/better/more enviable, either they are denying who they are or you are hanging onto the wrong person. Do yourself a favor and imagine the most amazing life you can picture for yourself and then see if your love still fits into that picture or not.

Finally; if it was easy to get, would you still want it?

The best way to know whether or not you truly want something or someone is to imagine being able to have them by the snap of your fingers. If you still want it or them, you are likely in the right set of mind, but if you feel the ease of it would take the fun out of it, then you might be looking at something you don’t REALLY want to do, but is just a challenge and you simply love the challenge of it.

Then again, there’s nothing wrong loving a challenge, as long as you know what you are doing it for. :p

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