the Survivalist* in the Flux

The very definition of the Survivalist* is that their personality is very “fluid.” This means that they kind of… Pick a mode of function based on the situation and roll with it. This is not a bad way to be, exactly, because you get along with most people with relative ease.

Sometimes you go crazy over some people and their behavior. Some people you cannot figure out and can’t get along with. You are still a fairly normal individual, all things considered.

The main difference between you and a Idealists* is the way you make friends, really… The way your relationships work. The Survivalist* in the Flux are good people, but they’re not flashy or ambitious in the way the Idealists* are. They’re not lazy by any means, but they’re not driven by status or power. They are communal thinkers and never play dirty.

Commitment – but you also do your own part.

You value commitment, but the difference to the Survivalist* is that you understand it has to be mutually voluntary. You also know you need to be worthy of that trust, and you don’t have a constant need to test the bond by abusing your partner.

As a lot of things in your life seem to be in constant change and fluctuation, you wish there was some things you could simply rely on, and as such, wishing to form a committed relationship with a reliable person who you can truly count on is at the very top of your personal life goals. The trouble you are facing in this department, unless you’ve been very smart about this before, is that you MAY tend to lean towards the Idealists* too much, and they – we – are… Essentially useless for your purposes.

the Idealists* can’t commit to you.

Make this as your mental note: “I cannot rely on a Idealists* to stay with me or to take care of me at all times, if at all.” If you want to attach yourself to a Idealists*, you will need to realize that they will not be tending to your needs and that you will have to learn to be alone while in a relationship. Any attempt to tie them closer to you will only send them running further away from you, eventually possibly breaking up the relationship entirely. They need a long, long leash, which you need to understand, to the point that it might be just the same to you to let go of the leash entirely and let them go – they are, to you, as I said, useless.

Now, the trouble is, to you, the Idealists* seem much stronger and more reliable because they offer a very safe post to lean on. As the name suggests, they seem solid, and you feel that by hanging onto them, your life feels a little more stable and controlled. The thing is, though, that the chances are the Idealists* doesn’t want to be that reliable to you, and you will have to find the next best thing… Or, actually, the better thing for you; A Survivalist* Democrat to be your rock you can lean on. The Idealists*, for you, should only be used for consoling or guiding words. Imagine that what they are are words of wisdom. They come in, and leave words behind. Savour their words, not the person. Remember them for saying the words, and let the person go.

The Survivalist* Democrat wants what you want, or, is, at least willing and able to give you what you want; a stable home and a family and something to rely on. Another the Survivalist* in the Flux is also a very good option, even though you might both feel a little lost in the wind. You need stability, that is all there is to it.

You can think for yourself.

Another difference to the Survivalist* is that you can think for yourself. You are not entirely reliant of another person to tell you what to do, what to say, and when to take… Therefore, you can also rethink certain ideas in society.

As the Survivalist* in the Flux, you are also in a great position to re-evaluate your life goals, your values and your position on things like polygamy or monogamy. Now, this might strike your fancy; When you are monogamous, the choice of one person leaving you will leave you to square one, alone fluttering in the stormy winds again. A polygamous relationship will keep people near you even if one or two would leave you cold. And when I talk of polygamy, I do not mean the one man several wives under his thumb -scenario that most people connect it with, nor am I talking marriage in the legalized sense. I am taking several different variations of permanent, committed live-in relationships between several people.

If you are a woman, you might want to have more than one husband, or you might want to have both wives and husbands, maybe you want one husband and be one of several wives, or you might, heavens forbid, want to have just several wives and no husbands at all, or whatever else strikes you fancy. It really doesn’t, usually, matter to the Survivalist* that much whether your life partners are also sexual partners, you simply want to know there will be these certain people around when  you wake up in the morning.

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