How and why Naturally Polygynous Gynephile women cheat

This post is the sibling to the previous Why do Polyandrous Androphile men cheat -post, that you might want to read if that makes more sense in your brain. I will keep both posts available for you all because it is just interesting to see how the dynamics work in different configurations.

One of the best signs of a Polygynous Gynephile women is that no matter what they seem to be doing, the boyfriend of one of them will so weirdly often cheat on them with their best friend, and the more she is in love, the more certainly this will happen. She thinks it’s because she only falls in love with bad boys or that she has some thing for getting hurt or because she’s a magnet for assholes, because whenever she is in a relationship with someone who treats her right, she is not really into it, but is much more likely to be jealously looking at her best friend and her boyfriend…

The heart wants what it wants, right?

The amount of heartache the naturally polygamousORpolygynandrous people suffer in a monogamous society is a freaking crime. The love between two polygynous women is strong, but so often broken because of the way we view the “cheated on” woman. While she may not be able to stop loving either her boyfriend nor her best friend, the societal norm kind of demands that she will, or she will prove herself to be a complete push-over and a door-mat, so she has no other choice but to stand firm and throw both of her greatest loves, her best friend and her boyfriend out of her life.

But what if this wasn’t so? What if we made another plan and took on a new attitude?

What happens in the life of a polygynous gynephile woman, is that she is connected to her girlfriends by her soul. Just to intercept, that friendship between two polyandrist women is not the same kind of a bond, and their boyfriends will not go between them, likely because they have a very different taste in men. Polygynist women, however, will love the same type of a guy, and most likely, they will fall in love with the same guy, every time, whether the best friend admits to it or not. (They simply swear to themselves that the fact that she is also in love with their friend’s guy will not become an issue…)

Their natural alignment turns them towards the same guy, because they are MEANT TO BE together at all times. It is unnatural for the polygynous gynephile women to marry different men and separating into different lives! That is unnatural and painful for them. They should be living together with one man, the one they mutually have agreed to be the most amazing man in the world.

The way that they are wired, these women cannot be happy in a relationship with a different man to their best friend. They will NEVER find equal men to love; the one or the other always has the better boyfriend or husband, because they will never settle until they both settle with the same man.

The only way these girls can maintain a monogamous relationship is by picking someone who neither one of them really loves – Mr. Wrong. Separately, either one of them can only ever be certain of a monogamous, faithful relationship with Mr. Wrong, (Mr. Right on paper only).

The Polygynous women are also suckers for their best friends’ boyfriend so much so that it may take all their will-power to not sleep with him when he makes his move, during a fight or some slight pump in-the-road that he will use as an out, and she will accept as such because the sexual chemistry and real love they share has been denied for so long they’ll clutch onto a straw to excuse themselves to cheat on their best friend or wife.

The fact is that the society is MUCH MORE OPEN to polyandrous relationships than polygynous – after all, one crazy slut of a woman and her desires are “being taken advantage of” is acceptable, after all, she’s not the one getting cheated on, but the opposite fights the society’s idea of what is acceptable and right treatment of women, and that is why the polygynous need to explain themselves a lot more than the polyandrous do… That being the case, I make this statement; Now you know what causes it if it keeps happening to you, but how you handle it is another matter. Being openly bisexual is one fantastic way of silencing rumors and raised eye-brows, because for an openly bisexual woman if would only make sense to have both a boyfriend and a girlfriend in their lives. That is a play that is not quite as available for the men; female bisexuality is a lot more accepted than male bisexuality… I feel. In fact, I feel women who are NOT bisexual seem to have a lot more to explain than what heterosexual men do, people having quite a belief that all women are bisexual, but that men are not.

Hope that sheds some light into it. 🙂

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