The many ways being famous screws up your love life.
Every girl in the mass of fans is all in tears for their love for you screaming your name. Their emotions are running high and the energy could be cut with a knife. Every second Twitter message says the same thing: I love you, I love you, I love you! Marry me! Don’t worry, this is not a sermon about your ego getting inflated, but simply explaining what your fans see and what you are to them, truly, in terms of soul connections.
One would THINK you just pick your favorite and ride off to the sunset, but nah. That would be entirely too simple, wouldn’t it?
Your Soul Age attracts attention.
Contrary to what you might expect, a great proportion of celebrities belong to the ancient soul age, people who are naturally extremely charismatic and talented, simply due to a lot of lifetimes becoming excellent at what they do. This wasn’t a stroke of luck to people like Johnny Depp, Sean Connery, or Howard Stern who are as old as souls come.
Ancients have freed themselves of most societal expectations, and are free to roam the planet as they wish, creating rather than surviving. Their mode of being is different, they do not look upon how they should be but what they are and thus make natural celebrities. Once a person truly finds themselves, they will gather attention from those around them and they are very likely to succeed at what they are doing. People are no longer mystery to them – especially beneficial to an actor who has been dealing with people from the time the species was developed and knows them inside out!
The other soul age level celebrities often belong to is a Teen Soul 5, which is a phase where celebrities come from is another type. It’s usually a fast acquired celebrity through a talent show, reality show or one-hit wonder, that is likely to end in a shooting star, often leaving the Teen 5 stuck in the way things were when they were young and successful. (This is not always the case for quick rises and falls, but the phase clearly focuses on the material of it: what you are/were rather than who you are.)
IF the Ancient falls out of fame, they simply stop being famous, but the Teen 5 will forever ache for the fame to return because they barely understood what happened to them. The Ancient will use their former celebrity to their benefit, they don’t attempt to reclaim it by force but rather use it to open up new alternative doors.
The ancients have more interesting problems
I’ll be focusing on the ancients because they have the most interesting problem. Their charisma and old soul age have gathered them friends (and enemies, but mostly friends) for thousands of lifetimes worth.
As they are charismatic and talented, people naturally flock to them for advice and support, often even financially. As their status allows, they make more soul bonds than the average person makes. Also – celebrity and status are rarely fleeting for an ancient, and they will be reborn over and over to shoot to stars again.
Previously possibly kings and queens, war heroes, and philosophers, now celebrities, sometimes in countries with less of a star culture, but still they’ll make a spectacle out of themselves without even trying. An ancient will be a success at anything they aspire to do (unless their soul holds them back for another goal). They often become a sort of local hero if they “decide” to keep a low profile for a while.
People flock to their ‘age’
They are naturally seen as an elder despite their age (by everyone except child souls, the people who are most often in charge of the business side of what they are doing, teens handling their PR and styling, and not always in their favor. Imagine a teenager handling their father’s style after divorce from their mother, confident of knowing how their father would attract a new partner fastest…;)
An ancient is someone to rely upon, someone to trust (or fear, as it may be) and someone to fall in love with. An ancient soul cannot avoid being admired, even without fame. They are bound to create tons of one-sided soulmate bonds, in which your admirers see themselves in you because you’ve been around and collected a lot of qualities to your being and thus feel “just like me” to almost any individual, although the Ancient themselves doesn’t feel much of a bond at all to the younger admirer.
The most devoted fans will belong to the Infant Soul Age 5, which is a soul age where the person learns to admire another person, to aspire to become like them. They have learned a new emotion after learning love; admiration and they lavish it onto anyone who deserves it. They have no ego to stop them from doing this, so they become your professional fans: they are likely to own fan sites that they update frequently. (Good ones to hire to do this very job, btw. They also have very little to say on their own, and they are glad to promote any image you give them to promote.)
Your image hides who you are
This is one of the biggest risks that you are facing: Your image is a carefully grafted part of the product that is you, and when it’s not done properly, it can literally put a mask on your face and hide you even from your truest love. They will most likely find you irksome if the image is too far from your true self…
Ancient spirits have a certain way of carrying themselves. Their fashion style may remain very ‘classic’ over lifetimes and lifetimes. Although they easily ‘update their look’, they will stick to the same style a lot.
Yanni, the Greek composer, has always had a mustache. Like ALWAYS. In some desperate bid to remain ‘updated’ in his look, he shaved off the mustache and grew a more modern 5-o’clock shadow look. It seemed as if wings had been ripped off a butterfly. Even though his look was “more modern” it seemed that he was wearing someone else’s face, and it did not suit him at all. His True Emotion Mirror would have been disgusted. 😉
Forcible “fashion updates”, thus, to an Ancient are not great. Then again, an ancient can go from a serious psychologist to a rock star over lifetime, or should I say over one death (reset), and still manage to appear The Same, when they are creating their own styles, or are in charge as to what to wear.
Stylists should NEVER PRESSURE an image change. It will simply make a star look and feel awkward.
The fan (as opposed to a crazed fan) who is your true love
There are plenty of instances where an unknown person recognizes a celebrity as their truest lover. They see them in a magazine or on TV and they get an extreme reaction to them; ranging from sheer terror to tears of joy. Just as often, they simply love what the star is about and make a mental note to keep following this fascinating person.
They are highly unlikely to form an interest in a celebrity if their friend is a devoted fan out of instinctive jealousy toward the celebrity. The exception to this rule is when both friends are poly-bonded True Emotion Mirrors of the same celebrity. As the Internet has made it fairly simple and safe to be connected with fans… It would be wise to keep that door open for your friends on the other side. (Carefully secured door, but a door nonetheless.)
When the celebrity contacts “the unknown half”
A lot of the time, the celebrity returns to their loved one in dreams and ‘voices’ in their lover’s head. This sometimes happens after the celebrity passes. This can be extremely distressing to the unknown lover, who simply believes they’ve gone crazy all of the sudden and that their admiration towards the celebrity has suddenly taken a turn for the worse.
Very often, the unknown half has got a keen interest in their celebrity soulmate’s career, but their interest is more reserved than that of a crazed fan. They are more objective in their analysis of the celebrity, rather than idolizing everything they’ve ever done with no discrimination at all. They look at the celebrity through the eyes of an equal rather than a worshipper. There often seems to be an age difference between the (male) celebrity and their true love – I don’t know exactly why that is, but it seems to be a reoccurring theme – probably to allow the celebrity to enjoy their career without the pressures of a relationship (but it won’t work as they still miss their other half).
Instead of dying young to return to your unknown True Emotion Mirror, I recommend not limiting your search to fellow artists. This is also one type of soulmate challenge – will the rich and famous find the poor and unknown lover of theirs despite all odds and warnings?
Your co-stars and colleagues
It is also very common for True Emotion Mirrors to wind up in a cast of a movie or working side by side on a creative project. When I speak of the ‘unknown half’ it doesn’t, at all, mean that two celebrities cannot be True Emotion Mirrors to each other. However, it seems like a POPULAR TrEmoR challenge to organize a world between the TrEmoRs, with jealous rival souls mudding the waters as much as they can.
You just must trust your gut a bit.
How love slips through your fingers
It is far easier to reject a celebrity than an unknown person. (I’ve personally done that repeatedly, even before I had anything to reject, as in: “Oh it’s that celebrity… Better get out of his way pronto!”) You don’t want to be coaxed by the fame, and you feel that they must get constant offers anyway, so you’ll just let them go about their business, and most to the point, you don’t want them to mistake you for one of their screaming crazed fans… Little do we realize that the celebrity that we passed by as someone too notorious to be taken seriously might be a True Emotion Mirror.
People also very often attribute the True Emotion Mirror feelings toward a celebrity to the feeling of “being star-struck” even if they notice their reaction to a certain celebrity was a bit on the extreme side. It is, however, something an Ancient unknown would easily dismiss and file away as “one of those things” and move on with their lives. It takes a bit more than that to awaken them to the reality that this is actually their True Emotion Mirror. “UPSIE DAISY!”
We do the same thing even with unknown soulmates, I call it NODing choosing the Next One Down; the second-best option, because it seems more realistic than the first option. Sadly, both parties end up suffering.
The pressure of falling in love the right way
The most ironic thing is that most celebrities pretty much sell the concept of love and sexuality. Whether in movies or song titles, pages of a book, or other art forms, what we all are obsessing over is love relationships and sex.
So, what does it look like, when someone bellowing their lungs out about how falling in love is hard on the knees can’t find one true love but heads from one divorce to the next? The pressure to get married is high enough when nobody is looking, but when the whole world is watching and reporting who you’ve seen dating last week is added to the pressures, who can blame you for poor choices for wives and husbands?
Nobody should ever settle on anyone until the lightning bolts are shooting down; sometimes the greatest womanizers are only waiting for that one true love of theirs. Just like all of us, fame or no fame, we all want to feel like we have found one true love and enter marriage. That marriage for the most part is great but leaves out something that is needed: True completion.
As people are watching, it is difficult to resist the temptation of giving in, folding in the unrealistic hopes, especially as fame so gloriously offers options far and wide: what kind of an egotistical fool can’t find a suitable partner when sexy people are falling from the rooftops into your arms? The other annoying little thought in the head: If I don’t marry, will it look like nobody wants me or that I am incapable of loving anybody but myself…
How to know a True Emotion Mirror?
This is the most amazing thing. You don’t need to KNOW them before you know you love them. That is what you need to know and trust. You can sweep your eyes through a crowd and there is one person that catches your eye and you keep returning to them over and over. The more movie moment it is, the more certain it is real! Don’t fight it, don’t rationalize it, if you see someone and know, you haven’t gone mad, it’s not your ego, it’s not your overindulged lifestyle… It’s true love.
If this happens more often than once in your lifetime, it simply means you’re poly bonded.
Of course, I have some descriptions of True Emotion Mirrors, all of which also apply to the celebrity.
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