The non-sexual or low-sex drive True Emotion Mirrors

With all the focus on the sexuality of True Emotion Mirrors on this site, I thought it’s time to pay a visit to the True Emotion Mirrors who are simply not that interested in sex at all. I do have a few stern words to share, as per usual, but also, hopefully, a few encouraging ones.

First of all; if a person IS highly sexual, so is their True Emotion Mirror. Therefore, if a very non-sexual person is convinced their True Emotion Mirror is someone who is very sexual, one of these possibilities is true: a) The True Emotion Mirror has decided to eradicate sexuality from their spirit. (HIGHLY unlikely scenario, and should be regarded as an anomaly and a theoretical possibility only, also even if this was the case, it’s unlikely the wish to kill one’s sexuality is actually an authentic one.) b) This is not their True Emotion Mirror at all, but a different type of connection such as a parent/child from a different lifetime, likely a 2nd Tier Destination, the True Emotion Mirror equivalent that sometimes comes with absolutely NO sexual chemistry at all or c) the less sexual one of the two must open up to their own sexuality in order to reunite with their True Emotion Mirror. (There is also the possibility that a sexual True Emotion Mirror feels their counterpart as being non-sexual when in fact, they are simply used to keeping their energetic level in absolute check, rendering it near impossible to sense any sexual chemistry at all. I the creepiest of scenarios, sometimes a girl’s mother/guy’s father gets so excited about their daughter/son finally meeting a man/woman they’d approve of, that they literally get in the middle of things in spirit and completely block the sexual energy between these two. When the parents finally give up hope, such as due to one of them getting married, they remove themselves out of the picture and it’ll be all a blaze from there on…)

The general rule of thumb with True Emotion Mirrors is that if you see something in your True Emotion Mirror that you are not, you will have to grow to that size; to open that area of yourself, or, if you are ‘bigger’ than your True Emotion Mirror, then they have to grow to size, NEVER the other way around, never become less, always more; never give up on something you enjoy, but learn to enjoy things you previously didn’t. If you are unwilling to grow, then it’s time to let this person go, and find a new connection with someone who is able to match everything that they are 100%. With True Emotion Mirrors; always grow to size, never cut to size! If you disagree on which way is growing and which way is cutting, you’ve got severe issues and the match is likely to NOT be authentic TMS one.

There is someone for everyone

It would be a dangerous assumption to make that all men are highly sexual and therefore require their True Emotion Mirror to be, too, because that is certainly not the case. Some men suffer from the eternal assumption that they want nothing but sex all the time – and I am certainly not helping to eradicate that stereotype myself, but the truth is, we are all different and as far as sexuality goes, there’s more differences in there than similarities to play with I’m sure!

For the non-sexual and those of a low-sex drive, a few questions are important in order to guide oneself towards a reunion:

1. Is my non-sexuality authentic, or am I escaping from something? Do I fear it, or is it just one of those things that don’t interest me at all? (Compare: Do you not want a dog or do you wish you didn’t want a dog because they smell? Dog ownership is completely voluntary, but if you believe having a dog is a key element to being lovable, then owning a dog would become a much more a must, don’t you think? Similarly, having sex is very much voluntary, and NOT a factor in having a True Emotion Mirror relationship, provided that the person you consider a TMS IS an actual True Emotion Mirror.)
2. How is your parent’s sexuality… Do they possibly fear for you about all the dangers of sex and therefore block your energy from it?
3. Try and contemplate the concept of divine feminity and define masculinity. Do you qualify? What would be your variation of it?
4. Are you afraid of those feelings? Is it possible you had a previous lifetime during which you were traumatized by, for example, being punished for having had non-marital sex with someone, ruining your life, then, leaving you fearful of sexual feelings that feel like doom to you?
5. Is it simply uninteresting to you, sexuality? Does it feel more like going to school in the morning, like something you have to drag your feet in order to be excited about? If so, you might be genuinely non-sexual and one of the defining traits of your True Emotion Mirror is that they too regard sex the same way (or some other form applies, like an ideal of an open marriage giving them the freedom of exploration for instance)? (Again, only if the suggestion feels like “OH YES,  THAT is how I want it!” is a sign of the correct answer. Any “Do I HAVE TO” is a sign of a non-answer.)
6. Does you feeling “non-sexual” have anything to do with your belief that you will never find someone to have sex with and you might as well give up on the whole thing as it’s not happening and you’re not good at it at all..? If so, you know you are sexual, simply uncertain or inexperienced, that’s all.
7. Do you feel pressured to sex, so it feels like YOU HAVE TO do it for some reason? Please know that you don’t have to. My whole theory starts from the assumption of ‘your True Emotion Mirror loves you for you, or they are not one’, which means you’ll have to be brave enough to trust that you will be loved for Who You Are, including a non-sexual person, by your actual True Emotion Mirror.
8. The fear of sexuality, by the way, is the fear of emotion, nothing more. It brings up strong emotions (that’s why people enjoy it) but those emotions are often disturbing, challenging, or scary… But still, just emotions.
9. Do you have to force yourself to be “disinterested in sex”? Do you think you are better than others because you’re “not animalistic like others”? Remember, you’re a hairless ape, not a genital-free angel.
10. Have you actually taken any steps to heal your sexuality? Have you ensured that your attitude towards it is not hindered by something else? If you truly are non-sexual, there’s nothing to fear, if you are not, the best thing you can do for yourself is to heal this area of life, because… At the end of the day, sex is truly something to keep living for.

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