I’m not here to rescue relationships but lives

First and foremost, please make sure you understand this fundamental basis for the Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology: The Typology is based on the concept of reincarnation. The word “soulmate” refers to souls returning to each other for one reason or another, karmic bonds included. Each soulmate type detailed is a different type of a bond, created by different types of people. Several factors are in play when soulmate bonds are created, one of the most important ones is a person’s soul age and their Thinker Type. Not all people fall in love the same way or for the same reasons.

It is important for both the Savants* and the Normal Person* to understand that we each promote and swear by our own way of falling in love, but that is not at all to say that everyone wants to love the same way. One person’s lacking, mundane, and predictable is another person’s unattainable dream.

The Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology is designed to save lives, not relationships

There is nothing more important in our lives than the people in it (hermits excluded). It is of absolute vital information to each and every individual to understand the many different ways and reasons people wish to have relationships in the first place. These reasons vary from a person to person.

You would be using The Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology wrong if you would attempt to RESCUE relationships with it. It is designed to save the Savants* thinking lives. The Savants* tend to be driven to suicide because they feel trapped in a relationship they do not want. It is also here to stop the Normal Person* from winding up in relationships that will fail them. I am ABSOLUTELY NOT here rescue a relationship that is crippling the Savants* to a point of a suicide and forcing the Normal Person* to be on constant alert in the fear of a divorce.

Differentiate goals, ideals, and descriptions

The relationship types are NOT GOALS or IDEALS to turn an existing relationship that doesn’t match the description to it. They are written to IDENTIFY a relationship that already IS that way as what it states. It is “a diagnosis” rather than “a prescription”. Please read this as many times as you need to understand it, the Normal Person*. Because the Normal Person* have an obsessive need to rescue all relationships, what I just said may not make any sense to them at all at first reading. However, my main audience are the Savants*.

(How does it save lives? The Savants* want nothing more from life than to live it by their own rules. The Normal Person* push their rules on the Savants*, driving them into depression and suicide because they feel trapped and unable to change the way their life is organized, often due to family obligations. Whenever a person who committed a suicide is said to “have had it all”, “no reason to complain”, and “a family to support him/her” it’s nearly certain they were a Savants* trapped in the Normal Person* thinking life.)

The incompatible ideals

The Normal Person* wish to make each other feel safe in life. The Normal Person* wishes to ensure nothing bad ever happens to their loved ones. At the same time, they are looking for someone safe and reliable to be with and often feel a Savants* is such. This drives the Savants* on the walls because they want an exciting life, they want to feel a little bit scared and insecure, they want to take risks and be on the cutting edge. When their lives get too safe, they will face a REAL danger: The wish to suicide.

Relationships can make a person justifiably unhappy and depressed

The Savants* may well be aware that it is their relationship that makes them unhappy, but their therapist and family may well convince them that they are habitually unhappy. “You’ve got everything you need, what do you think would make you happy if you left this relationship? You have a perfect life…” Too embarrassed to say they think climbing mt. Everest would be rather cool, or setting up camp in the deepest Africa with the gorillas would sound like a thing to do, or perhaps winning Nascar one year… They may think their lavish dreams are simply a part of the “illness” called depression and get convinced that they SHOULD be happy with what they’ve got… They are not depressed, they are uninspired and bored. That changes their brain chemistry known as “depression”. What they need to be happy is simply not there YET and they are blocked from going after it.

The more the Savants* need freedom and excitement, the more the Normal Person* try to stabilize their life. “Oh, they’re OUT OF CONTROL!” This attempt to control and “manage” the Savants* is what drives them towards suicide. This needs to stop.

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