How your IQ affects your understanding of your relationships

The more intelligent a person is, the more variables they can handle simultaneously. A person of a high IQ can take more aspects of a relationship situation into account at once than a person with a lower IQ. They will typically have difficulty understanding each other, as the person with a high IQ is able and wants to include a lot more aspects into their lives than a person with a low IQ who wishes to focus on the basics and simplify one’s life rather than complicate it.

A conversation between a person of a low IQ and a person with a high IQ about a relationship issue will often end up in a conflict. The low IQ is looking for ONE THING they can focus on to make things right. The person with a high IQ usually requires several points to be taken into account simultaneously. They also often have a narrow field of “this is how I like it” and outside of that narrow line is all wrong. A person with a low IQ tends to only see the extremes, so when someone with a high IQ corrects them, they say something like “you are too passive, you have to initiate sex sometimes.” OKay, the person with the low IQ does as told, and goes WAY overboard, to which the other person says “you’re coming on too strong, slow down a little.” The person with the low IQ cannot put these two things together as an “initiate, but don’t over-run me” and think this person is being “hot or cold” “all or nothing” or “changes their mind constantly.”

A person with a low IQ also wants to know WHICH ONE OF US is the important one. Currently, women are “in charge” so a person with a low IQ cannot consider anything but the woman’s perspective. She’s the important one, while he has to conform. A person with a high IQ wants to consider everyone concerned, their friends, family, and the relationship between their ex-partners, the children of their ex-partners, their mutual children, their own children from a previous relationship, their current partners etc. A person with a low IQ thinks that whoever they are thining about is THE ONE PERSON in their lives, and cannot understand a person who has more than one consideration in their life.

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