When Love Dies
True love never dies, but the regular type of love most certainly does when pushed too far. Of course, love that is a little less than True Emotion Mirror love is real, too, it’s just that it is conditional. “I’ll love you for as long as you treat me like so.” The True Emotion Mirror love is different, the love lasts regardless of how you treat each other, for as long as you ARE THE SAME PERSON as you were when you fell in love. The connection depends on you not changing too fast or without the other person changing, and as such, your values should stop you from doing anything too unforgivable to each other. Trail Companions*, however, disagree on what is OK and what isn’t.
Getting Someone Back
It is not hard to imagine a situation where one has “screwed up” and destroyed another person’s love for them. This is easily done by a Trail Companion* to another, who loved each other based on different rules. People tend to test their love connection with another person by pushing their boundaries. It is a part of love to test how far you can go with the other person before they leave you. A True Emotion Mirror will withstand all tests, no matter how dramatic. A Trail Companion* may quit the relationship at the first sign of trouble.
If the love has truly died, it is most likely futile to try and rekindle the relationship. This shouldn’t stop you from trying, after all, you may desperately need to ensure this is the case, however, you may do further damage to the relationship and the person you claim to love, too. It is often futile to tell an abandoned person this, as they tend to see nothing but what they’ve lost and felt an entitlement to, and things must run their course, but as I’m writing this I write in a state of mind when my “chaser” has finally understood my love died a long time ago – and I was getting murderous trying to sink the message in.
The Silver Lining
If there are any words of consolation I can offer, this would be it: As your most important relationship so far turned out to be an attachment to a Trail Companion* or an Enigma, now you are free to find ACTUAL true love and your real True Emotion Mirror. You are no longer attached to the wrong person, and that’s a great thing. If you are not there yet, you will be. You will feel when the connection breaks for good, and you’re free again.
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**) Narcissists are Young Souls left alone to survive and they're doing their best. Their emotional age ranges from 3 to 17 -year old. The younger, the more severe the narcissism.
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