True Emotion Mirrors and marriage

There are people who believe that the measure of a relationship is its durability in time. They believe that the longer a relationship lasts, the more valuable it is. If this is the way you happen to value a relationship, then your ideal partner is the Lovers’ Choice Soulmate* (a willing and co-operating Trail Companion*). However, the True Emotion Mirror relationship is permanent in another way.

Mortality, Immortality, and Marriage

In mortal terms and marital sense, if you want to spend the maximum number of years out of your life married, the smartest choice of a soulmate is a Lovers’ Choice Soulmate*. However, that connection only lasts until death do you part, and they are more than able to let go of you and move onto the next relationship in their next lifetime, which, to a lot of people doesn’t matter at all. A new spouse can be exciting, right?

In terms of immortal souls and reincarnation, the only connection guaranteed to last is the True Emotion Mirror connection, it’s lifespan can be counted in millions of years – tentatively speaking. To the True Emotion Mirror, marriage means nothing, as the value of the relationship is the intensity of the feelings and the fact it does carry on for millions of years worth of incarnations.

A Permanent Relationship vs. a Marriage

Marriage-obsessed people may believe that a person who is looking for true love automatically means that they are looking to get married. This is not at all true. To a lot of people, marriage and true love can be even mutually exclusive concepts. A lot of people also consider the idea of permanent relationship and marriage not to be the same thing, considering that over half of first marriages end in a divorce. In that sense, to automatically assume marriage guarantees a permanent relationship is naive.

True Emotion Mirrors and marriage

Although marriage isn’t at all necessary to seal a True Emotion Mirror relationship, which quite easily outlasts marriages even of the other half of the True Emotion Mirror pair themselves, that is not to say that a marriage between True Emotion Mirrors couldn’t work. The trouble with marriage and True Emotion Mirrors is not that they couldn’t stay together, but that marriage can cause a few problems in the True Emotion Mirror relationships if entered into without proper preparation.

True Emotion Mirrors are often kind of scared of each other. This can cause them to rush into a marriage together in their bid to seal the deal before they lose one another, but once married, they may feel too afraid to risk losing each other to even attempt to further deepen their relationship. This causes insecurities as their natural bond isn’t fully developed yet and they know it.

A True Emotion Mirror marriage can also be too safe for the partners, who love to test their relationship a little bit. When everyone else respects their relationship, they may feel even too safe with each other and start looking for thrills and trouble to keep each other excited. At the core of this all, however, is a deep love and wish to stay together forever, marriage or no marriage.

Moving in together

The True Emotion Mirrors are safe and fine to move in together the same night they meet, no issues. They SHOULD spend every waking hour together if that’s how they feel, and they should be joined by the hip from day one if that feels right to them – but it rarely comes quite that easy.

Although they should spend all available time together, they should never marry too soon. Marriage should be way way way down the line when they feel it is the most obvious thing to do:

How can the True Emotion Mirrors make a marriage last

The key element to a True Emotion Mirror marriage is not to rush into it. It has to be the FINAL SEAL to an already complete and full soul bond. Once it means next to nothing, the pair is ready to marry. When the relationship is so obvious, so completely without the need to prove, test or question, THAT is the time to marry. The True Emotion Mirrors should never marry out of fear of breaking up and protecting the connection, but marry only after they are so certain of each other that the marriage doesn’t mean “safety” but rather practicality and perhaps a romantic gesture.

The True Emotion Mirrors should never marry without an absolutely brutally honest conversation and a plan on what to they TRULY want out of a marriage, as they can spend a lifetime together trying to make the other partner happy in the exact opposite way than what both of them want: A True Emotion Mirror couple I know, in their 80’s now, are driving each other mad, because she wishes to be served, while he hates being served. He wants to serve her, and she wants to be served, but they have fallen into a pattern in which she serves him. He takes it all with an emasculated grin and forced gratitude, while it is him who wants to make her a princess rather than his servant. If they had talked about this rather than followed the society’s expectations at the time they married blindly to this day, they’d be much happier together – albeit they are still together!

The key to a happy True Emotion Mirror marriage is complete and brutal honesty, to the DETAIL of which part of a loaf each one of them loves the most! They should THRIVE to knowing each other’s deepest secrets and thoughts, a practice that would destroy normal marriages.

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