We always worry about whether our soulmate feels the same way toward us, whether we should hold onto hope at all, so here will be the answer to that burning question: What if this is completely one-sided and I am a lunatic? Tell you what, you are not a lunatic, but there is a good chance someone you see as a soulmate is actually a so called Enigma: Looks real but isn’t really what you think it is.

Enigma (Ancient) Personality

Very often a certain person becomes an Enigma to a lot of people around them. This type of Enigma is most likely spiritually highly developed person, as in an Ancient soul, who has got so many lives under their belt that they are incapable of being anything but a soulmate to a lot of people. Their personality traits and interests are so varied and developed and they learn new things so easily and quickly that they simply broaden their ability to mirror others to an unseen extent. They are usually very talented people, who have that “star quality” whether they are well known or not. The depth of their soul leaves noone cold, but they may seem cold towards people because they know that. They may seem cocky and choosy and they can seem narcissistic and like they thought they were better than anyone else… Because they are. This is not something they can change or deny, they simply are this way because they started their first incarnations when others were still in soul form, and became humans long before other souls were brave enough to try a life as a human, as our species was ‘untested’ for a long time. (This partially explains human population growth and the diminishing of animal life forms.)

The Enigma people, who could also be called according to the Soul Age levels as Ancients, are often celebrities, local heroes, artists, musicians, eccentrics, philosophers, scientists, intellectuals, spiritual masters of all kinds, they exude intellect and superior talent. Their manner is polite and refined, they are usually calm and collected – but also somewhat cold and difficult to get close to, especially if they are non-celebrities who don’t have that natural boundary that celebrity status creates. They have learned to keep people at an arms’ length in order to protect the others from getting too close to them and to keep their own circle of friends that many of them regard sacred, as small and high-quality as possible. They are definitely choosy about their friends, and all this put together they are often accused of narcissism. (It’s only narcissism if you can’t back up your own claims of superiority.)

An Enigma may also be an incarnation of someone famous that you used to idolise, we’ve always had our heroes, be it a Prince in a Shining Armour or Jim Morrison – they had a fair share of admirers, who devoted entire life times to worshipping them. This has got to form a soul bond of some kind…. Granted, that modern technology has made this thread bigger since the invention of Television and will have greater effect still in the future generations when these movie stars start popping back up in great numbers.

Your Personal Enigma

Sometimes the Enigma isn’t someone who others regard as highly as you do, but someone who is on a higher Soul Age level than you are. They still have gained some headway and can answer your needs easily and be to you everything that you would need in a partner.

How it works

The way this works is that the Enigma, as they are on a higher developed stage than you are, can easily answer all your needs and dreams of an ideal partner or a friend, but unfortunately, you can’t do the same for them. Blinded by your own wishes, you may not see this for yourself, and you cannot see the unmet needs that the Enigma has in regards to you. A person who is often an Enigma to others will normally avoid getting close to people who they see to be in a danger of considering them a soulmate to themselves, and they will keep their distance regardless of your adoration. They might afford you mild compliments at time so you wouldn’t feel offended or that they wouldn’t feel too self-conceited, but they choose their words carefully – but often not carefully enough to not encourage dreams of mutuality in the relationship.

When A Trail Companion* is also an Enigma

This is when things get really confusing. This is when the Enigma themselves start to bond with you willingly. They have seen something in you that they want to protect, grow and encourage, something about you drew them closer, it may be a past life connection, something you said… Whatever it is, they temporarily left their guard down and became entangled with you in a relationship that they too wanted to be real although they probably knew from the start it wasn’t going to last. When an Enigma has spent years without a friend or lover that is on the same level with them, they are likely to lower their standards so to speak and seek a human connection amongst people they know they should stay away from. They start becoming more selfish in the seeking of connection and form friendships despite knowing that they’ll end up breaking their hearts. They become a little careless, and especially upon meeting a Trail Companion*, they can be tempted to just see about it and hope their instincts were wrong. They might have also accepted that their expectations of others are too much and give into something more of this world. This is when it is very easy for a person to mistake an Enigma / Trail Companion* for a full soulmate.

The Decision

If you think there’s a risk that your soulmate is actually an Enigma, then the only sensible thing to do is to let go of the wish to become closer to them and simply take it for what it is from day to day. If the person is not a mentor of any kind to you, someone who has a “professional duty” to be courteous and friendly, supportive and accepting of you, but you still feel their love for you despite the coolness, you are most likely in love with a soulmate, but if they are in any way ‘a superior’, a teacher, a guide or a support of any kind, then, we are most likely dealing with an Enigma. Enigma or soulmate, in both cases the wisest thing is to let go of them and to move on, but not force another relationship to replace them, or say to yourself that “okay if I can’t have this one, then I can’t find another soulmate!”, because that is not true nor logical and you’ll end up married with a Trail Companion* of some description. If this one isn’t your soulmate, then even if you were monogamous, someone else must be!

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