How “Unbreakable” is the True Emotion Mirror bond?

The True Emotion Mirror connection is a connection based on the fact these two (or more) are exactly suited for each other. They love each other for their permanent, authentic true state, their optimal ideal way of existing. They love each other for the people they wish to be, themselves, more than who they appear to be in the moment; a result of a compromise most often. Their true, inborn, and honest ideals are identical. Because this connection is based on these people’s ideal, unless their ideal changes (which is possible but unlikely in the Savants*) the bond won’t break.

the Savants* and the Normal Person* difference

Because the Savants* have a permanent, stable personality, their connection to each other will not go out of style. They are truly forever bonded, for as long as they stay loyal to themselves. They cannot lose the connection to their True Emotion Mirrors unless they lose a connection to themselves.

The Normal Person* change bonds because their personality is still non-stable. They change and adapt to hang onto anything with a pulse. They don’t know what exactly they like yet, so they keep searching for something permanent, often desperately so like orphaned children.

They are looking for the answer in the wrong place. They are trying to tie people to themselves by force because otherwise, they won’t stay. They often try to bond a Savants* to themselves, because the Savants* feels safe and stable to them. They want to feel equally stable, but they are looking for a solution in another person, often someone who isn’t willing to give it to them. What they should be doing, is to look within. What they are, their True Emotion Mirrors* are, too. (Any small part of the truth is a small part closer.)

The pressure to do right by the wrong person

Because the Savants* are under constant pressure to change their personalities to suit the lonely and insecure the Normal Person*, their personalities are forced to adapt to a degree. The Savants* feel they are hiding their true self, out of politeness, not out of shame. They allow the Normal Person* the fantasy of having found what they are looking for, but that is not kind to anyone.

All of these compromises are dangerous to the True Emotion Mirror connection. The Savants* should learn to protect and preserve their authentic selves. They should avoid all close friendships and relationships to the wrong, compromise people, who the Savants* are more than capable of identifying. They should do this at the risk of years of loneliness because loneliness is better than to be stuck with the wrong people with the cost of being separated from their True Emotion Mirrors .

Kindness is OK, being used is not

This is not easy by anyone’s standards. We are brainwashed to accommodate everyone, to accept everyone, to be friends with everyone, do right by the needy. For the strong to protect the weak, for the strong to feed the needs of the weak. The Savants* are like a blood source for a starving vampire, and they know it every day of their lives, often begging for liberation… Only to have their pleas fall on deaf ears. (Art is their most common mode of crying.)

I am sorry to say, that I too believed being a good, selfless person will give you happiness but it doesn’t. All it does it collects needy, hungry people around you, creating impossible karmic bonds that keep you from your true loves. You do not need to be selfish, you just need to stop being used by other people. You know the difference.

None of this is easy

The True Emotion Mirror is vulnerable to a great variety interruptions. Any impurity in their authentic self is a problem. A bad soulmate connection or a karmic connection for either/any party is a problem. The reason why I and anyone who has experienced a True Emotion Mirror connection calls it ideal is not the ease of it or the durability of the connection, but the incredible feelings involved in it. The other person is a heaven or a paradise when everyone else is some form of a jailhouse or a mental asylum.

This bond is not needy or desperate, it is like the air we breathe. You do not need to hold onto your True Emotion Mirror (although some do it by habit and fear of loss). You can safely let go of them as they will never voluntarily stay away from you. They do it for a number of reasons, but never because they want to. The only time when the True Emotion Mirrors should hold onto each other for dear life is when others are trying to pull them apart – and that happens. It happens a lot. It is often that they don’t even realize they were supposed to hold on when they have already been pulled apart.

The reasons others intervene

The greatest danger to True Emotion Mirrors, I kid you not, are each of their parents. Because of our ideal of never falling in love with your own parent, as that is incest, we are forced to seek for parents from the wrong people. The wrong people do not understand the ways the True Emotion Mirrors connect, otherwise, they wouldn’t be the wrong people. As the parents try and protect their child from bad influence, they do not approve the True Emotion Mirror by default as they blind themselves to the fact their child is nothing like them.

The True Emotion Mirrors must become more conscious about the dangers of other people’s influence, so they can navigate their social lives better. We are all different and we connect differently – to some people families are actually a positive thing but not for us all.

Reincarnation

One great way to solving this problem is for the Savants* to never be born to the Normal Person* if they can avoid it. The Savants* are very respectful of difference in people, including that of their children.

Unfortunately, in the state of a soul, the spirit, after dying, is pulled to whatever parent is most needy of them. Often the Normal Person* parent is motivated by the wish to protect their child from “over sexualizing” “falling into the wrong crowd” and proving to themselves they could love ANY child. This creates a strong pull for the wrong kind of a child to be born to them. The parent, in this case, is gearing up to become a living hell to a Savants* child, and to do anything in their power to keep them from returning to their True Emotion Mirrors .

And… Finally.

We all get bored with eternal happiness

There is a certain annoying boredom in eternal happiness. This is why, periodically, we will probably create a ton of drama for ourselves to sort through so we’ll fully appreciate the bliss again. Forever is a very, very long time, my dear fellow travelers, and therefore, what is a hell also creates the possibility of absolute bliss.

I can almost hear the moment when I and my True Emotion Mirrors decided we should “test our love”. We should put it to test how big of a suffering we could endure apart, how we would move heaven an earth to be back together again. I know we cast ourselves out of the Paradise because who in this world could endure eternal happiness… It would be a hell on Earth, as George Bernard Shaw pointed out in Man and the Superman if I am not mistaken.

One of your goals

As eternal happiness is, quite frankly, a hell, one of your goals as True Emotion Mirrors is to find a balance between pleasure and pain. The yin and yang symbol contains the light and the dark side. To be eternally happy, you will have to find the dark, and the light and love each side with the depth of your very soul – hopefully together with your loved ones. Suffer together, not apart.

Then again, who am I to tell you what you should be inspired by at any given millennia, my immortals.

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