The real celebrity soulmate that actually loves you back

As a soulmate researcher and teacher, I have had the pleasure of talking to a lot of women who have found their actual soulmate to be among the rich and the famous; a real celebrity soulmate rather than one of those quiz-type celebrity soulmates.

It is an incredible thing to experience and to describe it, I will share one story I head from the girl herself: She was casually flipping through a magazine in her bedroom when she turned onto a page with a full page photo of a man she’d never seen before. Energy rushed through her, she felt like this guy’s soul was rushing through the pages right into her, and in shock, she flung the magazine across the room and under the bed, because the sensation of knowing him from a past life was so strong. She remained trembling in shock for a while, a week, if my memory serves, before tentatively reaching for the magazine again to see who it was. She knew this man was her soulmate.

Any reasonable person would question their sanity

The next obvious thought to come to you is: “Am I losing it?” and if you ask a health professional, the answer is most likely… “Well, the human mind is a complex thing so I wouldn’t say you’re crazy but…”

Famous people do have a lot of admirers, many of whom are actually soulmates, the connections vary from mild attraction to strong and from strong to superbly intense sense of connection and belonging like in her case. A girl or a guy with a half a brain will understand this without being told so. However, a sensation strong enough to toss a magazine off your hands like it caught alight is obviously rare.

Some experiences of a real celebrity soulmate are well documented, like this story of a married mom whose life suddenly took an interesting turn when she, without having any prior knowledge of Sammy Hagar had an out of body experience at his concert she was half dragged to in Cabo, resulting in an incredible chain of events that she wrote a book about with the endorsement of Hagar himself, although it didn’t lead to a romance: Dance of the Electric Hummingbird: An Ordinary Woman’s Accidental Journey to Enlightenment, the Supernatural, and Rock Star Sammy Hagar

Other stories exist, but rarely with the endorsement of the celebrity themselves… As most of the time, the soulmate dares to say something only after the celebrity passes.

The reason why even a real celebrity soulmate might not seal the deal

What is very typical to the love stories between an unknown person and their real celebrity soulmate is that the non-famous party freezes, talks themselves out of getting excited or even hopeful and they disappear without a trace potentially leaving the superstar heartbroken and alone. Luckily, the Universe is often gentle with the celebrities, and shield them from ever finding out about the non-famous soulmate until one or the other have gained enough self-confidence to make the connection complete no matter the odds… Or even attempt to.

Married

Getting self-confident enough to handle a real relationship with a True Emotion Mirror as I call them, can take a long time, sometimes long enough for both partners to reach middle age before the confidence gets up to scratch. It is truly common for everyone in the age of cynicism, that is considered a sign of intellect to not believe in anything too nice. Most people, famous or otherwise, have to take until their 40’s or 50’s to be strong enough to approach their soulmate, who is always equal to their counterpart. Until then – normal boring marriages for everyone!

The pressure to fit a norm is on for everyone, just to avoid the embarrassment of being too romantic to be sensible. We all make ourselves believe we are in love with people we don’t truly love and marry those who we figure we can sustain a relationship with, even if we can’t keep the feelings truly alive.

If the general public knew anything about soulmates, like most people don’t, they would not be so quick to laugh at the 3-month marriages and quickly erupting artistic partners, who are… Would you believe, just as normal as anyone who has come across their true, intense soulmate – and the non-famous soulmates don’t get any less flack about it that celebrities do, apart from the number of voices chiming in the content is exactly the same.

Your rational mind fights it every step of the way

The trouble with these real TrEmor relationships is that our minds fight it every step of the way. Your own sense of sanity, theirs and everyone’s we ever candidly talk to about it will attempt to find a rational explanation to the events. Even if the other party, like the celebrity, was involved in the physical, which is not always the case, people react to it with extreme skepticism for understandable reasons.

We are so hell bent on being realistic and reasonable that we are attempting to find ANY explanation to the feelings and events, ANY at all, as long as it isn’t “true love”, let alone “he/she loves me for who I am.” A lot of the times your heart knows but your head is exploding with alternative explanations, some of which get intertwined with accusations toward the other; accusations that speak volumes about your own insecurities and fears rather than what the other one actually thinks about you or themselves.

The thing is, we ALL get star struck when we are faced with our most intense soulmate type; the True Emotion Mirror. We all think they are the most amazing thing in this world and they could have anyone at all. The insecurities flair up: “Oh she/he thinks she/he knows everything about me, I wonder what tabloid she/he reads and what she/he believes and thinks… I wonder if they’ve seen that photo…”

Different types of soulmates can confuse things further

Soulmates, even on a good day are difficult. I have created a whole Soulmate Typology to make sense out of them, and I am quite proud of it so have a look when you have time. (A great little tool to help create realistic relationship storylines on, the stuff of legends that nobody will actually believe if they haven’t experienced it first hand.) But as I was saying, soulmates are difficult, and it gets worse because we are all pretty much raised as cynics. Every warning you’ve ever heard and every insecurity you hold will flair up, and sadly: it goes both ways. The celeb will look at the commoner (we need a proper words for both) thinking: “Okay if I just walk up to her/him it looks as though I think I can just snap my fingers and have anyone I ever wanted, she/he will think I’m a shallow prick should I do that…” and the commoner: “Oh I don’t want to be just like those others fawning over him/her, and he/she would probably not want me anyway and/or I don’t want to inflate that ego any further, if they’re not coming to me, I won’t say a word…” Also, knowing the current and past relationships of your celebrity soulmate is not exactly going to fill you up with confidence, either.

The need to not allow the real celebrity soulmate, any more than an Enigma, to have their ego inflated any further is an interesting little conundrum. Very common with even non-celeb soulmates (True Emotion Mirrors ) who simply start this power struggle over who has to come crawling to the other. When the ego is in question, it is actually the person’s own ego that fights back when they should confess to the other that they are interested, even though they accuse the ego of the other one to be the problem. Ego, by the way, is your idea of who you are, and when your ego is threatened, it means something is in some way threatening your idea of who you are. In this case, you are threatening their belief that they would not be “blinded by fame and fortune” or attracted to someone “simply because they’re famous or popular or wealthy”, but because you are standing there, being all attractive and charismatic, they fear what they are attracted to is your fame and fortune and your reputation, rather than the person you are. Because they fear it might be true, they are rejecting the whole idea of approaching, because they don’t want to have to look into themselves to see what was the real reason for the attraction. On the opposite side of the fence, the celebrity soulmate is fighting their fear that what if they are only attractive to that person because they themselves are famous etc., and some may go into a fierce state of anger believing exactly that (“You are only interested me because of my fame or money!” (because that is the only thing that could explain the interest of someone that attractive) even if nothing could be further from the truth. (Then again, don’t think celebrities have a sole right to love insanity, we can do it with the best of them: My True Emotion Mirror was convinced I thought that he was wealthy and after his non-existent money, but when he was looking at me trying to invite me over to him for a chat, I looked at him like a half-wit: “What on earth is he staring at?” The though that he might want a chat didn’t even occur to me as I thought him a demi-god that would never ever take the time to get to know me, after all, if he wanted me, he should just snap his fingers, right? I would have come running.)

So no, the guy or gal who could have anyone doesn’t always. The same is true on the other side of the fence… Nobody does, always, get the one they love, even if the love ran deep and mutual. And that is something we need to fix… People need to know that true love does, in fact, exist, and that it can strike when you least expect it to, at a place you never thought you could fall… crash in love; like alone in your own bedroom.

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