Why starting a relationship when you’re feeling down and desperate is a horrible idea

Right now, give yourself a “note to self”. Something you’ll remember from this day forth: When you’re feeling like you “just need somebody” to love (you). “Anybody” would do. Ride that feeling out no matter what.

Whether that feeling is yours or the other person’s it’s not a good time for a relationship. However, as True Emotion Mirrors often try the WORST TIMINGS, they may appear just at this moment, so don’t say no to love when it really hits, just that… When you are feeling low, you often turn “realistic”. You feel you’ll finally have to accept realities that you’ll never find true love, you’ll never get the life you want, and now it’s the time to face facts and settle with someone. DON’T DO THAT.

Love will feel powerful at any time of your life, but I am warning you from SETTLING on a low point. Remember that starting a relationship with the only person who is there is not a good indicator of true love, as you’re literally settling on THE LAST PERSON still there. Once you get up and over your slump, you’ll realize you made promises you didn’t want to make to a person who you didn’t love or want simply because they were there when you were down.

“I’ll burn your house down so I can save you”

Some people, I know this from my own, personal life, have a power of blocking people out of your life and raining shit on your life so that you’d hit a rough patch and finally see their value. I know this sounds paranoid, but if you believe in The Law of The Truest Wish, this is a negative way of using that very law. If you want someone else to be hurt so you can be the one to rescue them, that is within your powers to create. You may be the victim of such a wish.

However. There is one thing The Law of The Truest Wish DOES NOT CONTROL, and that is your feelings. No matter how much someone may want you to fall in love with them, they cannot make that happen. That is reassuring to know. The Law of The Truest Wish, or the Law of the Truest Wish as I’ve decided to call it for other reasons, brings about events and opportunities. It is an invitation for events to take place. For instance: “I need this guy to lose his job so that he’ll have to rethink his future, and at that moment, I’ll be there to manipulate him into…” (An act of true love, huh? *Sarcastic*)

Love, on the other hand, is a feeling. It is your reaction to what is happening. Feelings are a SENSE, just like eyesight, sense of balance, hearing, they react to what is there, rather than being an event to control. Feelings are a reaction, and they cannot be controlled for too long by an external party… Much. (Write later¹ )

The love prospect is not necessarily the offender

You know how friends and family may have an idea of who you SHOULD marry? Your friends and family may screw your life over through The Law of The Truest Wish so that they can introduce the person they wanted you to marry to you at that moment. They think you are being shallow and focus on all the wrong things, so taking what you always wanted and worked for away from you, will “snap you to your senses and see what is important” and “for you to appreciate the people who deserve you and who have your best interest at heart”. The love prospect maybe well unaware of this arrangement, but they also may be on board with it. Regardless, it’s a manipulation strategy and you don’t need to fall for it…

Even though they can be VERY persuasive.

I am sitting in my room for the 6th year waiting for my friends and family to give up control. I know I sound paranoid, but the only option for me is to keep my eyes on the ball or give up and go home or reestablish my relationship to my former husband who is still my flatmate – which I think is the idea. You know how time will rekindle the emotions? What would really happen is that I’d lose my hope, and decide to give in and do as life has decided my fate to be. I would settle AGAIN… But I am not settling, I am, instead, using this time for something productive and writing these theories. (link to once published² )

Don’t settle when you haven’t got alternatives

Regardless of who is doing it, you’ll have to sit tight and refuse to be manipulated. Don’t play along. And I must say that sadly, it may be a very long fight before you can see it carry fruit. Treat it like a siege. Join an adult dating site, count your savings, ration your money, and prepare for the prospect of living off an unemployment fund long-term, and pull your head in for a long fight. And buy yourself a pendulum and learn how to use it. (link to once published³ ) Once you have an access to your True Emotion Mirrors , you will last longer, they’ll give you hope and restore your faith in your future, and severely reduce your willingness to accept “bad luck” as your lot in life.

Take it as a general rule of life: Whatever you are willing to compromise on, you will compromise on. Once you’ve taken a deal, you’ll have to settle for that deal. You’d think you can just give that up and go for the higher prize, but it seems that if you have a Christian family background, they will try to keep you to a humble path by force, “for your own good” and every time you try and get off that road, they’ll find a way to close a door to what you want and open the window towards what you want to avoid. Don’t take that window. It’s not God doing it, it’s your family and friends. They don’t get a say in this unless you give it to them.

1. A label I leave for myself to remind me of topics that I need to address later on, which I may have forgotten or not have had time to do so far. Remind me if you have time. ↩

2. The Law of The Truest Wish; how our needs meet? ↩

3. Using a pendulum ↩

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