True Emotion Mirrors and their TrEmo(Mo)rs

I’ve written, that whenever a True Emotion Mirror of yours has another True Emotion Mirror of either gender, they are also your True Emotion Mirrors. That sounds simple enough, yeah? Of course, nothing is quite that simple.

First of all, we are talking about a True Emotion Mirror, not a wife or a husband

First of all, let’s make it blatantly clear, that not all wives or husbands are True Emotion Mirrors (to each other). In the event that the spouses ARE True Emotion Mirrors because just having a spouse is no indicator in any direction, a marriage is a man-made institution that doesn’t always follow the spiritual laws. So, if YOUR actual, correctly identified True Emotion Mirror is married to another person, that person MAY or MAY NOT be their True Emotion Mirror. If that person IS their correctly identified, actual True Emotion Mirror, then, they are that to you, too, at least in the potential state.

The danger is that you’ve gotten confused about who is your True Emotion Mirror, but that’s another post.

So, True Emotion Mirrors feel the same way about each other, always

This, obviously, doesn’t mean that everyone who you’ve always loved will love you back. It means your actual, correctly identified True Emotion Mirror will always love you back. That is not a promise, that’s a description and a definition. If they don’t love you back, you’ve got the wrong person, of course, with the removal of the possibility they’re toying with your emotions to test your conviction or something along those lines. (I wish they didn’t, but they do at times.)

So, whatever relationship type you are TRULY, AUTHENTICALLY, into, from the following options; monogamy, polygyny, polygamyORpolygynandry¹, polyandry, and the variants, you’ll both see eye to eye to, until you BOTH/all will change your mind about it.

If you’re polyandrous by your natural alignment, so is your True Emotion Mirror. If the person you’re thinking about is a polygamistORpolygynandrist, you’ve gotten yourself mixed up with the wrong person. Of course, sometimes people deny their own desires out of shame or fear of rejection (not because they’re ‘unaware’ or ‘don’t know their own mind’ but they simply pretend to themselves as though these feelings or thoughts didn’t happen, or that they are not that serious). Also, people can and have the freedom to choose a sexual alignment even knowing the potential to be bisexual or gay exists.

There’s a difference between potentially gay/bi and self-deniably straight. The other hasn’t opened up the potential, the other is denying the potential is already open and simply hasn’t been acted upon.

So, you only need to give your True Emotion Mirror the PERMISSION to be what they always wanted to be and they’ll feel relieved of the permission, not coerce them into becoming what you need them to be for your own pleasure. If they feel coerced and pressured into something they don’t want to do or be, you’re toying with another person’s True Emotion Mirror, not your own.

1. Depending on context. Some time ago, I used the term polygamy to mean either the generic concept of polygamous marriage or a MM+FF+ -type marriage or poly-committed relationship. ↩

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