Asexual Sapioamorist

You feel romantically in love with another person’s mind, but you don’t ever feel sexual arousal toward other people. As opposed to a physiosexual, who falls in love with a person for just being there, you need that intellectual connection to that person to fall in love with them.

Still, people have shared their deep and meaningfuls with you, they’ve stuck around, but you’re not getting sexually excited. You just want a romantic relationship, a bit of time together, loving each other’s minds’, and for people near you to accept you without your sexual links alive, so to speak.

You might feel like you want a mentor for life in your romantic partner. Someone to coach you through life and to keep you safe. (I feel the need to tell you I am not available, sorry. 🙂 )

What I’d like you to be aware of, that as much as it means to you to be allowed to NOT BE sexual, it’s just as important for sexual people to be allowed to BE sexual and act on it. You do nobody favors by trying to protect others from sexuality, and you definitely don’t do anyone favors by forcing them into asexuality, simply because that makes you happiest. Non-sexual love is not the superior love to anyone but asexuals.

That said, you’ll find relationships difficult with anyone who has a sexual side to them, therefore, I recommend dating among other asexuals only.

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