True Emotion Mirror in Mature State

How could I possibly do enough justice to this soul connection? Every superlative in my use will fail to describe what this connection is about, and there is not one word that would exaggerate it or over-sell it. Every couple or soup¹ that has ever reached the full maturity of a True Emotion Mirror connection in any previous lifetime, will always want to return to that blissful state of complete love as soon as they meet in their new incarnation.

To be near this person, even if you weren’t officially in a soup, feels like a privilege; you feel LUCKY even knowing they are alive. You are not jealous of this person, because no matter who you are, you always feel a little out of their league, perhaps even after years of marriage, and they feel the same way about you. But you’ll learn to trust their love, even though you keep always feeling IMMEASURABLY LUCKY to be THEIR CHOICE. They surround you with an aura of love and passion, even when in denial, and there is an unspoken understanding that is detectable even those who do not know you.

This Lifetime

Mature True Emotion Mirrors², if they are that when they meet for the first time in a lifetime, they always know each other from a previous lifetime (but may not ALWAYS recognize each other straight away). Otherwise, they cannot be Mature State True Emotion Mirrors upon the first meeting, obviously. When Mature True Emotion Mirrors meet for the first time in a lifetime, they often know instantly who the other one is. This knowing is not dependent on their religious views or previous knowledge about reincarnation nor soulmates, they simply know That Is The Person I have been looking for.

The emotions upon that meeting can also be multilayered, depending on which memory, instinct, or emotion your subconsciousness tries to remember or is connecting with, the moment seems a bit different, and often such that sticks to memory permanently (or the shock of it erases it completely in some rare cases).

Supernatural experiences

True Emotion Mirrors in this stage may give hilarious descriptions of the moment, like “my heart flung out of my chest and slapped him in the face before it returned back into my chest”, or “I completely lost every thought in my head and drew an absolute blank” or “I saw a photo of him in a magazine, and I threw the magazine across the room under the bed as I felt such a shock at the sight of him. It took me a week to carefully fish the magazine out of under the bed and look at the photo again”. They also may have some kind of an out of body experience or something close to it; being aware of their soul parting them while the consciousness stays put.

There may be psychic awareness that opens up at that moment, any number of things happen. They may literally hear bells, see the person in a fog – any cliche you’ve seen in a comedic movie about falling in love. Time can seem to slow down or speed up, their senses may suddenly stop recording everything else surrounding that person, but in the midst of all of this, there is a knowledge that THIS person, no matter how amazing or unbelievable, is THE person. The knowledge is more peaceful than exciting, but everything else that happens can be anything but peaceful.

Past life experience is present as an instinctive knowledge

There is also a possibility of knowing, from a previous lifetime experience that their love is not welcome (for some reason), or it is or will be denied (due to another Mature True Mirror connection most likely) which would cause them quite effectively, out of love and respect, to stop the emotions from flowing between each other, making both, or at least the other one, completely unaware of the other one’s emotions. (There is more to this kind of situations and feelings, that I will have to describe later on.)

It is difficult to describe a typical relationship or moment of meeting because everyone is different and every True Emotion Mirror couple or soup is completely unique, especially the older their souls are. The older we are, the more complex and defined and also, unusual our chosen lifestyles and challenges are, so the older your soul is, the more difficult it is to give you a description that would resonate with you wholly on all points. However, it is undeniable that this connection is so strong that it will be difficult (yet not impossible) to not notice it from the very first moment.

Anger is also possible

You can also feel anger or resentment, fear, inexplainable negative feelings for a True Emotion Mirror. Upon inspection, these feelings come from the belief that this person doesn’t love you. “I love you so, how come do you not love me back?” If this is a True Emotion Mirror, the feelings ARE returned, but for some reason, you’ve left with the belief that they don’t… Such as being stood up at the altar, when a family member stopped the wedding and you were told they changed their minds at the last minute, while they didn’t…

But also, anger can be milder: “What are you DOING?! Why are you ACTING THAT WAY?” And that comes from the displeasure of seeing someone who, in a previous lifetime, was… better somehow than now, like seeing a king or a queen wait on rude people, and you see that as being impossible or wrong, or beneath your True Emotion Mirror.

You can also tune into the person’s own self-loathing, and know exactly what they think of themselves even though you’d never heard of them before in this lifetime. You may get a feeling about them, and believe it’s your own opinion. “Gigolo”. “Fake”. “Player”. “Liar”.

The connection can go unnoticed at first, unbelievably

There are situations when this connection goes unnoticed, and it is absolutely NOT a sign of weaker emotions, but quite the opposite. As I mentioned before, if their love has been denied in previous lifetimes for any reason, or there has been other kind of traumas involved that the person connects with their emotions, they can “short circuit” and not allow any of it into their consciousness. As I mentioned before, they can also completely block the other one from not knowing their emotions, habitually, even if they, themselves were completely aware of their own emotions. How to get past this phase is individual, and entirely too complex to get into right now, but I will address it later on.

Even when the recognition comes with a delay, it will make sense, and be amazing as the realization grows: “Wait a second… We’ve been married before, have we… Blissfully happily so…?”

Polyconnections exist

It is, as already mentioned, possible that there are more than one of these connections to one person. This is the greatest tragedy that the monogamous ideals have exposed great lovers to. There is absolutely NO REASON why these connections could not exist simultaneously in several different polyamorous settings, marriage-like -situations included, but the ideal of monogamy persists causing soul shocks to those who are pushed aside to make way to another, equally strong soulmate.

However, if you feel strongly you couldn’t possibly live with another same-gender or opposite-gender partner in a situation like this, it can’t possibly be that you are polybonded. The reason for this is that You are Still You, and you’ve always been you. If you can’t see yourself forming this types of connections in the multitude, then your previous incarnations ALSO haven’t done so, therefore, the connections didn’t develop, particularly not all the way to the mature state.

Unbreakable, but fragile

Albeit sometimes incredibly difficult and traumatic, the bond between Mature True Emotion Mirrors is nearly unbreakable, if not unbreakable. Even if we consider it breakable, we are talking in countless of incarnations worth of unraveling of the bond, so in the terms of our common understanding, we are talking about an unbreakable bond, once it has reached this level of maturity.

The reason is that when two people are genuinely in love with everything they are, for as long as both are who they are, they CANNOT not love each other. This doesn’t AT ALL mean that the connection is immune to relationship problems, quite the opposite. NOTHING is as fragile as the True Emotion Mirror connection when everything is at stake and the smallest of ripple can send you running for cover. Still, the love will exist and pull you back together again for another try sooner or later.

1. Soup = Sexual group, an unspecified mix of romantically and sexually involved people, a polyamorous or monogamous group of mutually sexually faithful people. The term removes the need for terms like “couple”, “triad”, or “quadrant” or similar. ↩

2. This is specifically about MATURE state True Emotion Mirrors. Other state True Emotion Mirrors might not have met in a previous lifetime, so they can’t remember each other when they meet for the first time. The only thing they’d have is an instinct. ↩

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