Polyandrist (heterosexual) woman, you have no obligation to befriend other women

I am on a bit of a mission to liberate people from friendships that are somewhat being showed down their throats. NOBODY gets this more than heterosexual polyandrist women. No man is REQUIRED to be friends with other men if they don’t really care to be, nobody flocks around a man going: “dude, you have to hang out with other men, or you’re losing out.” Maybe at adolescence, sure, but if he hangs out with women as an adult, he’s just patted on the back for being “lucky” or “a good guy” because he shows attention toward the “lesser gender”. I may be a full-blown man-lover, but I don’t think women are the lesser gender. I just, on a personal level, have less of an interest toward women than men.

Wouldn’t you be lonely without female friends?

There are all these questions that people make you when you are making an unusual life choice. Yes, maybe, you might find yourself lonely without female friends, sure. However, is it helped if you are being pushed into a company of women who you can’t relate to because they are more interested in other women than men?

I personally die of freaking boredom in the company of normal women. I have no idea why women bother with such things as “girls’ night out” or even “hen’s night”. I mean, unless there’s a male stripper involved. :p Women, without men, are BORING AS SHIT to me.

HOWEVER, having said that, I love a good wild female who is as obsessed with men as I am. I love a girl who wants to make men feel amazing about themselves, life, and hey, about having a cock. To me, a woman who wants to make a man feel grateful for being a man is a woman I’d gladly call a friend, but ONLY if they do that FOR MEN, and not in order to impress me, or as a favor to me, which, to me is just being utterly fake and pathetic – essentially turning into a whore just to make a FEMALE friend… and yes, that happens!

Yes, this world would miss out without all the Fergies in the world. The beautiful and dangerous women most women fear and envy.

Obligation to have female friends

Often, I feel like I’m made to feel obligated to be friends with other women. There’s a lot of “feminist” stuff that says we must stand together and whatnot, but even on a more personal level, I feel like because I don’t fear men, I have to somehow hold other women’s hand into relationships with men – to show them the ropes and all that. And in a way, this website is a response to it, but it has to be enough… But it isn’t.

What women seem to want from me, at least, is this… Mentor to men. A protector when men can’t be there. Some kind of a pseudo-husband.

Many women pass this obligation off as if it was a favor TO ME that they are ACCEPTING OF ME even though I am weird and non-feminine. They want to integrate me into their group, teach me to be more like them, so I wouldn’t feel “so alone”. Yet, the only people who want that are them, not me.

And then there was the hilarious reason why they say they “abandoned me”… My so-called friends, that is. Apparently, I wasn’t pulling my weight in the mean-success-ratio between myself and them. They wanted us all to be able to pose at a night club in the latest fashion looking well-off. Oh, my, god, how I laughed. Women! Anyway.

Yeah, no. You don’t NEED TO have female friends

In all reality, having friends or not having friends can’t really be mandated on you, can it? You can simply refuse.

To me, this was somewhat of a huge realization, that hey… I can save myself so much drama and bad karma by just not making friends with women – particularly closet bisexuals who are the thorn in my side. And having said that, I know there is lesbian (bi) energy that even works for me and my guys, but I’m only saying that so you don’t get to say “we turned her” if I, and my guys, ever decide to take on another girl.

It’s going to be fun to both turn down female friend offers and to find who or what kind of girls might actually work for us all… If there is such a girl. Or, more to the point… If I could have girlfriends who would be perfect for the guys I’m not THAT attracted to. Hmm.

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