From Cot to Grave as the Young Soul* or a Old Souls*

Both the Young Soul* and the Old Souls* were born the way they are. The way they conduct themselves from there on is determined by their inherent type. Parenting has nothing to do with how the child develops toward the positive, but unfortunately, if the child develops to the negative, that has bad parenting written all over it. (In other words, you are justified in blaming your parents for your failures but you cannot take the credit of your child’s achievements, only for not stifling them.) However, this is not about parenting, but the way the individual operates despite their parent.

Child

As a child, the Old Souls* is a dreamer. In fact, the Old Souls* is a dreamer their whole life, but they are definitely openly a dreamer as a child. (A parent can certainly force them to not express those dreams by treating the expression of them with disproval or insensitively otherwise.) An the Old Souls* child is preoccupied with their dreams for their future, once they grow up, what they’ll be once they grow up, developing a value system, and solidifying their own personal belief system.

As a child, the Young Soul* is much more focussed on their parent and emulating their parent in everything possible. They follow namely their same-gender parent around and try to learn how to become that. An the Old Souls* child does this far less if at all. If a Old Souls* child wants to learn from their parent, it’s more a coincidental interest in the same things, rather than a need to become “like dad” or “like mom”.

An the Old Souls* has a stronger will than the Young Soul*, and they rarely ask for their parents for help. In fact, they may be quite militant about wanting to do everything themselves, learn new things, and the like, while the Young Soul* wants to learn from the parent or another adult directly.

the Old Souls* love stories, movies, and video games, the Young Soul* are much more directed toward learning to do what their mom and dad do. (This may drive a Old Souls* parent onto the walls, as they’re trying to work while a child demands education.)

Teen

A Young Soul* child will have a strong teenage rebellion phase. They are testing their parent’s certainty as to what they should do in the future. An the Old Souls* child is likely to be either completely aloof toward their family or they conduct themselves very maturely in terms of “getting into trouble” as in, they won’t get into trouble.

A Young Soul* teen can try everything and everything, kind of to find out what they can get away with and what they can’t. If you tell the Young Soul* pre-teen to NOT do something, they’re more than likely going to try and do just that. Then again, if you’re diligent about punishing them, or scolding them, they may do everything that you didn’t specifically tell them not to do in order to get onto your nerves as much as possible.

A teen the Young Soul* is testing how much you love them, and how to deal with you in the future, as they do intend to stick around. An the Old Souls* is preparing for a life outside home town – the world’s their oyster – therefore, their interaction with the locals is not important to them at all.

A teen the Young Soul* is very prone to peer-pressure and they are likely to change everything based on the current fashion trends, the current hot recording artist, they feel “but everyone else has one” is a perfectly valid reason for them to have something or do something. “I MUST have that” is their motto. An the Old Souls* doesn’t really care about must-have items, and rarely argues with their parent about material stuff they should buy him or her. An the Old Souls* kid will go to school wearing a blanket if their parents feel it’s too expensive to buy him or her clothes. A Young Soul* would die in shame if they don’t get the latest gadget that “everyone else has”.

A Young Soul* teen is easily embarrassed by their parent’s behavior, but a Old Souls* teen doesn’t take ownership of their parent’s bad behavior or other flaws. To them, the parents are a completely separate unit, but to the Young Soul* teen, the parents are an extension of their own image.

A young adult (single)

A young the Young Soul* adult will demonstrate “single behavior” to those around them. They want to ensure others know they are “cool”, and that they are “wild”. This is to attract a partner, really, by demonstrating how nobody is calling their shots, but they are their own master, aka. SINGLE SINGLE SINGLE AND LOOKING, PEOPLE!

A young the Old Souls* is mild-mannered as always. They may well dress to a subculture, but they’re rarely boisterous in their behavior. They are looking for people who they feel they can be free to be themselves with, but they can be understated in going about it. A young the Old Souls* acts pretty spoken for the way it looks like to the Young Soul*, but if they find out they’re single, the Young Soul* may deem them an easy target for a relationship. An the Old Souls* young person is often impressed by the Young Soul*e’s boisterous way of being, as they are looking for a liberator, and the Young Soul* fits the bill perfectly.

A young the Old Souls* is always looking for permission to be themselves around others. They feel themselves is somewhat offensive to those who believe in the norm, so they are looking for people who like them being the way they are. Therefore, they are drawn to the people who are most boisterous, but they truly should be looking to connect with those who are understated like themselves.

As time goes on, the Old Souls* give themselves more and more freedom.

A young adult (dating)

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