True Emotion Mirrors MUST be brave enough to argue

One of the most important skills True Emotion Mirrors have is the skill of arguing. The fact is, that TrEmors ALWAYS get to the same page, they will always agree in the end, but they may go on for years trying to please the other without any need to – in fact doing the opposite than what their partner wanted. For example, an elderly couple I know have this dynamic of a traditional couple; she cooks and cleans for him, he sits down to a ready-made dinner table and then both of them groan and grumble about it. She hates cooking and cleaning and he hates being waited on. She wants to be waited on, but wants it too much to ask for it, instead, she does what she would want to be done for her, and in his turn, he does the same. He’d love to pamper her, so he submits to the role of being pampered, even though that makes him feel unmasculine. If they’d just SAY SOMETHING, all this could have been fixed 60 years ago. (They are currently waiting for their next lifetime to start at the old folk’s home, basically hand-in-hand.)

Trail Companions* can argue until the end of days and never come to an agreement. All they do is get worse and worse over time, and that’s why we’ve learned to avoid arguing. However, with True Emotion Mirrors, the situation reverses, just like most of the relationship rules learned from being in Trail Companion* relationships. True Emotion Mirrors must argue. Sometimes, they may need to fight it out physically, but they certainly need to learn to voice their opinion and sometimes ram it in their partner’s throat, too.

True Emotion Mirror relationship is (going to be) permanent

The difference between True Emotion Mirrors and Trail Companions* is that True Emotion Mirrors are meant to stay in each other’s lives. They are there to gel. Trail Companions* do not gel. They never will. Therefore, for as long as you’re going to remain in the lives of your Trail Companions*, you’ll have to compromise and make allowances and agree to disagree. Otherwise, the relationship turns toxic, abusive, and will eventually erupt into its own impossiblesness. True Emotion Mirrors won’t. While one may storm out in a fit of rage, they’ll come back… One day.

While Trail Companion* relationships are more stable in the sense that the emotions don’t run that high, and it’s easier to get along with someone you don’t really care that much about, and it’s less insulting to hear (presumed) negative comments from someone whose opinion doesn’t mean the world to you, Trail Companions* will come to an end eventually. True Emotion Mirrors will eventually come together and gel for good. True Emotion Mirrors may be volatile at times, but once they gel, they gel for good… In the forever from lifetime to lifetime -sort of sense.

Therefore, it’s important that you make yourselves comfortable. You NEED TO bash out the stuff that makes you squirm even a little bit. You have to drag out the inconvenient topics, the uncomfortable… and the skeletons out of your closet. It all must come out, and there cannot be secrets between True Emotion Mirrors. It must be so, otherwise, they’ll break again, and the permanent state will be postponed again.

They also need to learn to apologize

True Emotion Mirrors, albeit they need to know how to voice their opinions, they also need to learn to apologize to each other. Obviously. But with True Emotion Mirrors, it’s the sweetest thing to do.

You need to learn to be yourself around your True Emotion Mirror and trust that whatever you are is always the correct answer. To do as you please. All general relationship rules are meant to be broken or altered with the True Emotion Mirror, and replaced with YOUR MUTUAL rules.

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