Nobody hurts you like a True Emotion Mirror – meaning

I’ve mentioned a few times that nobody hurts you like a True Emotion Mirror does. This has been interpreted as if True Emotion Mirrors were some kind of a special breed of people with a DELIBERATE attempt to hurt each other like they got off on it. It has also been taken as a competition or like a fucking pick up tactic: “If I manage to hurt that person (emotionally or physically) more than anyone else, I’ll earn the right to be called their True Emotion Mirror!” As in “I’ll show people I am not afraid to hurt them – that’s intimacy!” That kind of interpretations have been developed in the minds of fucking sociopaths! (Don’t listen to those people or spread that kind of thinking if you have half a brain on you.)

“True Emotion Mirrors are a fight club competition”, IS OBVIOUSLY NOT what I mean by saying that nobody hurts you like a True Emotion Mirror, and is very much twisting my words into something perverse, abusive, and insane. True Emotion Mirrors do not compete over who is the biggest asshole or has the biggest sense of entitlement over the other person! True Emotion Mirrors may hurt each other, but they very much TRY NOT TO. They both have the utmost importance of each other’s well-being, and even when they DO wind up hurting each other, they are driven to fix it, and although reactive hurt happens, this is not what they do as “a thing”, LOVE is the centric part of this, not hate and fighting.

Also this doesn’t mean that True Emotion Mirror is some kind of an ultimate lover as an individual, which is another thing I think I need to clarify again and again and again, as in NOBODY is a True Emotion Mirror as a singular, but always as a pair or a group, NEVER alone. You CANNOT BE “a True Emotion Mirror” without a counterpart. It’s not like “True Emotion Mirror is another way of saying ‘a stud’ or ‘femme fatale’.” Don’t be fucking stupid, people!

What “nobody hurts you like a True Emotion Mirror” means is that because True Emotion Mirrors love each other so much, their opinion of the other means a great deal more than anyone else’s. (Comparable only to how much a parent’s opinion means to a child, the younger the child the more the parent’s opinion of the child means to the child, but that obviously doesn’t mean that the parent is the child’s True Emotion Mirror, right? Similarly, when a parent shows disapproval toward their child, it hurts the child much more than, say, a teacher saying the same thing.)

A True Emotion Mirror’s absence from your life hurts you more than anyone else’s absence. Most people only know this as a comparison to the absence of their child, but True Emotion Mirrors are RARELY blood-related to each other (it happens, but at least in current time, it’s rare). A breakup from a True Emotion Mirror is worse, it hurts more than any other breakup – and yet, possible.

Also SOMETIMES True Emotion Mirrors fight a lot, particularly if one is more OK with the existing bond than the other is, most notably between gay-pairings where only one has accepted their homosexual tendencies to be something more than a drunken one-off. This is NOT TO SAY that if you’re in love with someone you consider to be “in the closet” that you can just grab them and fuck them and blame them for homophobia if they don’t like it, am I making myself clear? I’m just saying that when taboo-feelings arise, sometimes people fight against those feelings unable to accept that those feelings MEAN something. And then, often, negative feelings and the nasty side of self-denial (telling yourself that you are not what you wish you had every freedom to be without losing love or respect of other people who mean something to you) rear their ugly head. I am saying this so people wouldn’t give up on difficult relationships TOO EASILY, for as long as the love is still there, nobody else should have a say in how much crap you are willing to go through for another person. They should also not tell you when your love hasn’t been enough. When the love dies, the love dies, that’s as simple as that. And sometimes it’s wise to walk out of a relationship BEFORE the love dies completely, take a step back and rethink things through… BEFORE the love is all gone… And True Emotion Mirrors ARE NOT ABOVE love dying. YOU CAN kill that love, it’s just not a very easy or likely event… You have to put your True Emotion Mirror through hell to make them not love you… Sometimes… And this also often applies to other kinds of soulmates, as in, just because your love takes a long time to die due to abusive behavior or due to a bad breakup or other kind of shite loaded on you, doesn’t mean it’s a True Emotion Mirror in question.

True Emotion Mirror -theories are not permission to abuse someone or to ignore their feelings and to twist their words into something they didn’t mean. These theories are not a permission to interfere into other grown-up person’s, legal adult’s free will, this includes your daughter’s and your son’s free will and autonomy… And it also includes your True Emotion Mirror’s free will.

AND AGAIN, having said that, this is not a permission to interfere in the relationship of a True Emotion Mirror couple who do things in a way you don’t accept, approve of, or understand, such as a True Emotion Mirror pairing that practices BDSM or other fetishes they have, no matter how much it insults your idea what “true love” should look like. Just because you think that it’s “not spiritual” or “is not loving” or whatever doesn’t mean that it isn’t. If they’re both happy, and they’re harming nobody else, you butt the fuck out of their relationship, alright?

I just want to say: DON’T BE FUCKING STUPID when you read my stuff. This is master level shit, so don’t get into it and be fucking stupid! This stuff is not idiot-proof!!! THIS IS MASTER LEVEL RELATIONSHIP STUFF, and it is, I repeat, NOT IDIOT PROOF! Don’t be fucking idiot! If you are an idiot, don’t read this shit. Get back to basics, you piece of shit!

I’m just saying that simply because someone hurt you, doesn’t mean they don’t love you, or just because some people are constantly fighting, that they don’t love each other. But that DOES NOT MEAN that you’ll make someone love you by treating them horribly. Just the same as even though glasses make you seem smarter, they don’t actually make you smart, do they?! DON’T BE STUPID!

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