Somewhat of an idiot’s guide to True Emotion Mirrors Q&A
Here are some questions that plague the mind of people who don’t have personal experience of a True Emotion Mirror.
Can you, or can you not MAKE a True Emotion Mirror?
Not without their full collaboration. NEVER against someone’s wish.
You can FIND multiple True Emotion Mirrors that you’ve “made” with their full collaboration in previous lifetimes. (Don’t look at super attractive people and their multitude of True Emotion Mirrors and wonder how can you do that, too. You can, but it’ll take you literally thousands of years and hundreds of lifetimes. Learning to be attractive in the general sense will help in this goal, but True Emotion Mirror is a down the line thing.)
What is required for a True Emotion Mirror connection TO FORM?
A True Emotion Mirror connection requires certain ingredients to even be possible. You need two people who are compatible by their base-level, their essence. The who each of these people authentically are must already be in alignment. This doesn’t yet make them True Emotion Mirrors, it makes them POTENTIAL True Emotion Mirrors, after that comes the bonding, that will complete the… well, bond.
Where do you find your True Emotion Mirror?
Anywhere. You don’t go into a certain place and expect to find True Emotion Mirrors, but wherever YOU would hang out anyway is a good starting point. If you enjoy being somewhere or doing something, the chances are that so does your True Emotion Mirror.
Another way is to try spiritual methods, but they can be a little advanced.
Are people with many True Emotion Mirrors highly skilled at forcing people into falling in love with them, like manipulating them?
Absolutely not. In fact, they’ve learned to NOT EVEN ATTEMPT to manipulate others in any way at all. This takes a level of courage and insightfulness, which is then amply rewarded in plentiful of authentic soul connections.
Does True Emotion Mirror relationships need PATIENCE as the main ingredient?
Patience certainly comes handy, but I wouldn’t say it’s the most important thing. Patience can sometimes be a negative trait in all this. The Most Important, and the Most Difficult for someone desperate to find a True Emotion Mirror, is the ability to let go of those who are NOT their True Emotion Mirror. When you cannot let go and give up on connections that will never BE True Emotion Mirror relationships, you literally make it so that your potential True Emotion Mirrors have NO chance of making it into your life. Even if they were right next to you, you wouldn’t notice, if you’re emotionally hanging onto someone who will never be your True Emotion Mirror.
Can a Trail Companion* turn into a True Emotion Mirror?
I’ve said that a Trail Companion* can turn into a True Emotion Mirror, THEORETICALLY. HOWEVER, Trail Companions* are essentially everyone who isn’t either a True Emotion Mirror or a Precious Soulmate to you, so no, if you identify someone as a Trail Companion* it doesn’t mean that your chances are awesome by any means. They can be COMPLETELY impossible. Trail Companions* range from 0% compatibility to 99.9% compatibility, and it requires, say, 97% compatibility before it’s even remotely possible. REMOTELY, and NEVER without that person’s full collaboration and existing love for you.
Is it worth staying in a relationship hoping for the current partner to turn into a True Emotion Mirror over time?
ABSOLUTELY, 100% NOT. Not worth even hoping for. Especially if that person doesn’t really want to be with you, and you are not already very happy with each other. Still, even between people who are something like 99.9% compatible, it may be just that 0.1% that makes that couple impossible to become True Emotion Mirrors, and will ALWAYS remain as Precious Soulmates only. Everyone is a collection of traits that can be changed and adjusted to another person and traits that they’ll never change for anyone. That’s what makes us individuals, and each True Emotion Mirror couple unique. There’s no fighting this fact.
How much has time to do with the creation of a True Emotion Mirror bond?
Effectively NONE. What time does, is make an already existing (or recently ignited) True Emotion Mirror bond deeper and more intense, but time alone won’t CREATE IT.
Why is getting brutally rejected helpful in finding a True Emotion Mirror?
People who get brutally REJECTED as opposed to “dumped”, tend to have a tendency of banging their head against the wall hoping for something that will not happen to happen. When this person gets their hopes crushed BRUTALLY, they will hopefully learn a valuable lesson: You can’t simply force things into being and expect positive feelings to arise in other people. Getting brutally crushed will give a person much-needed maturity, which is vitally important in finding and forming a True Emotion Mirror bond.
Doesn’t quitting relationships create the opposite of a positive relationship?
This will sound weird, but I say people who quit relationships easily are FAR CLOSER to finding a True Emotion Mirror than those who try and force things into becoming something that was never meant to be. A lot of people waste decades on lukewarm relationships rather than speed date through a ton of people to find that gem among the masses. The search may never be over quickly, but if you think of speed dating, you realize quickly why it doesn’t work if you refuse to move on from the first person you sat down with… For decades.
Having said that, True Emotion Mirror relationships are not easy, but first, you have to HAVE a True Emotion Mirror relationship before quitting it becomes a problem for it.
What is with this self-observation, shouldn’t you be observing the potential True Emotion Mirror so you know what they want?
You will NEVER become a True Emotion Mirror by adjusting to some random person’s wishes primarily. When you try to please some random (or currently present and easily available) person, you are going FURTHER from your True Emotion Mirror, not toward them. The person you maybe with now, if they are not already a True Emotion Mirror is like the wrong address or a spot on the map, and the chances are that you’re traveling 100 miles per hour to the opposite direction to where your True Emotion Mirror is if you are trying to adjust to another person, rather than finding out who YOU are.
Because the True Emotion Mirror is YOUR authentic partner, they ARE exactly the RIGHT person FOR YOU. Therefore, once you figure out who YOU ARE, you are MUCH CLOSER to finding out who THEY are, and, even if you know, HOW to find that path to that person… As that road maybe as windy as it’s short… To put it poetically.
So, trying to get to know yourself is the same thing as getting to know your True Emotion Mirror -even if you’ve never met that person yet.
How do you know someone is a “potential” True Emotion Mirror?
A potential True Emotion Mirror doesn’t mean “the closest thing to an interesting person I know in my social circles”, but even a potential True Emotion Mirror is somewhat of a find. IF you want to find a True Emotion Mirror even in the potential state, you need to date a lot, tell you the truth.
You know a potential True Emotion Mirror by a MUTUAL (!!!!! MUTUAL MUTUAL MUTUAL!!!!!) sexual chemistry, and a somewhat “star struck” feeling toward that person, even if they weren’t a celebrity. You feel EXCITED about that person, even simply knowing them, and it’s often scary, in the way that a 12-year-old hesitates to talk to a boy or a girl for the first time, no matter what your age, how experienced you are, who you are, True Emotion Mirrors, even in simply a potential state, will make you a little nervous.
Another sign of a potential True Emotion Mirror is what would normally be called “a huge crush”. It’s always a very positive, exciting feeling, however, fun, hopeful, and rejuvenating (if you’re over 30, lol). It’s unnecessary to make this any harder than looking for “a mutual crush” for some raw material. (Obviously, not all crushes become True Emotion Mirrors, but it’s a good start.)
How about money, status, good looks…?
The True Emotion Mirror bond is a very animalistic, base-level bond. (Animals are spiritual, free beings that don’t have problems like guilt or shame.) Therefore, whatever your animal self, your unapologetic real self finds important is what is important. Don’t ask what is important to True Emotion Mirrors, ask what is important to you in a relationship. (Goes into that self-contemplation.)
Seek for pleasure, feeling good, and feeling free to be yourself
The “ban” on pleasure-seeking is the reason why most people wind up with Trail Companions*. True Emotion Mirrors are the temptation, the lure, the thing you’d want like pizza or chocolate every day, but without any of the unhealthy stuff! They are the dish you’d eat every night for the rest of your life if you could have your way. They are what you’ve learned to say no to and to avoid because “serious marriage” is built on mundane and boring. THAT is a Trail Companion* -relationship, and if you don’t want that, don’t go there.
True love comes out of pleasure, joy, great blissful feelings, the freedom to be yourself. That’s what you’re searching for…. You’re not MAKING anyone into a True Emotion Mirror, per se, mostly, what happens is that you find someone you really like, and then you enjoy each other and the world together…. Forever, as it may be.
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**) Narcissists are Young Souls left alone to survive and they're doing their best. Their emotional age ranges from 3 to 17 -year old. The younger, the more severe the narcissism.
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