Selfish needs you feel toward your True Emotion Mirror

True Emotion Mirrors feel a selfish need to be together. Both of them feel the same selfish wish to be together. HOWEVER, their PRIMARY need is, definitely on the Mature State, to ensure their counterpart’s well-being rather than that of their own, at the risk of their own happiness. The reason why I bring up the selfishness at all, is because good people FEAR their burning selfish need to be with someone to be a bad sign. If you are the entitled type of person, who feels that everyone should do what makes you feel good, you are unlikely to have ever experienced the kind of love I speak of, and thus, this post isn’t really about you, nor are True Emotion Mirrors in general, about you.

True Emotion Mirrors fear that their own burning desire to be with the other is over-riding their ability to take the other person into account, and that’s why I mention that truly, the primary, lizard-brain-level feeling is selfish. I also say this, because a lot of times people try to rationalize reasons why YOU should start a relationship with someone you’re not truly excited about. They sugar coat this pressure to start something with someone mildly interesting in many ways; they’re a good person, they deserve it, it’s never that exciting in the beginning (haha), it’s not all about sexual chemistry, it’s not about this or that or the other. They deserve it. No matter who you are, you’ve also deserved to be with someone you truly feel excited to be with. Everybody deserves great friends and amazing lover or lovers if they so wish. Everybody deserves to feel the effortless love that you feel for your True Emotion Mirror: and to clarify that; the love we feel is effortless, even something you’re UNABLE TO NOT feel. The relationship part is a bit more tricky for a number of reasons, but loving them and STAYING in love with them is absolutely the easiest thing you’ve ever done – and stopping those feelings would be impossible if you tried. (You can only… Put the feelings aside if you need to, but not NOT feel them.)

True Emotion Mirror is someone you want (but not all people you want are your True Emotion Mirrors necessarily), and they are NOT the person you need to be TOLD to love or appreciate. Absolutely, 100% never. No matter HOW GOOD and deserving that person is if you need to be told that you must love them because they’re so awesome, and you don’t, CANNOT be your True Emotion Mirror.

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