For love, you’ve got to be brave enough to be annoying and boring

In the very heart of the True Emotion Mirror -description is the requirement of 100% authenticity. You have to be completely you in order to be completely loved by your True Emotion Mirror. Of course, a morsel of love from your TrEmor is enough to feed you for a lifetime, sometimes even if you think it’s fake, but to actually have a REAL relationship with your True Emotion Mirror, you will have to be able to be 100% yourself around them, and sometimes that means boring and annoying.

Some people start with boring and annoying, others show that as the last thing they show to their TrEmoR. Some people show their worst to people first, some show their worst as the last thing they do. It doesn’t matter which way you do it, at the end of the day, whatever it is that you’re hiding it has to come out eventually, and you’ll get nowhere until it does.

Other people

Mostly, we are hiding from our True Emotion Mirrors as a side effect of hiding from people who we don’t love completely. There’s always some outsider ready to pass criticism on you over things your True Emotion Mirror loves you for. Your parents are not the least of the evil in this regard, no matter how much their pregnancy hormone -drugged brain tells them they love you still when you’re 50. Still, they’re not the only ones who will make you run for cover when your true self tries to come out.

It is the biggest irony that we fear being criticized by people we don’t truly love perhaps more so than by people whose opinion of us means everything to us. Maybe, because we KNOW our True Emotion Mirrors will forgive us for anything, but strangers won’t. They will judge us for having a gamer account somewhere, let alone for our true sexual perversions if they knew anything about them.

Therefore, to gain the love of your true lovers, you’ll have to withstand the shaming others will try and cast on you. And try they will, make no mistake. They will always try and turn you back toward the accepted, the norm, the usual. The non-disturbing. They want to paint you white and make you sit still against a white wall, where you won’t disturb them.

Your True Emotion Mirror wants you to paint yourself red.

With all the criticism you’ve learned to take

In your relationships to other people, you you’re not worth your shit to a lot of people. With some, you’ve got a really short leash, because they only approve of you, but they don’t love you. Therefore, your best behavior is expected at all times. Don’t turn light gray. Don’t make a fuss. Blend into your background.

The less love you’ve learned to receive, the more you’ve learned to keep yourself in check.

Beautiful people know all too well what I mean

I will also point out something weird. Beautiful people are often wanted as decorations to other people’s lives. If you look good on the outside, people want you there, but they want you white like a washed-out Greek statue. NOBODY gets more of this shit as physically beautiful people. “Shut up and look good in my arm.” This is why beautiful people especially have a lot of difficulties letting the flaws and their pains show through. They’ve learned that they don’t have a right to have issues. They only exist as a decoration in other’s world.

Beautiful people are also so caught after as partners, that they are forbidden to choose their own partners. It is as if beautiful people exist only for their genetic contribution to the human species. Breeding stock and decorative items only.

Physically beautiful people may sometimes go into extremes to make sure their shit gets to be out in the open: Enter Amber Out Of Control Turd. (You’re welcome to the visual.) Then again, beautiful people’s shit is often more tolerated by others than normal, because well… They’d look so good on your mantlepiece, all they need is a little taming.

Your emotional issues are gold, tho

When people want to gain power over you, what they need is your emotional issues. They want you to reveal your problems to them, so they know they HAVE YOU. They want to be entrusted with your issues if they want to claw their way into your bed. Therefore, beautiful people have learned to keep their shit to themselves a lot, OR air it out in public so that nobody they don’t truly love gets to claim ownership to their issues.

Therefore, to learn to be flawed with someone can take a little readjusting from a R10M8.

The honor of being your problem

When people are truly in love with each other, they feel honored to be each other’s problem. They feel joy of knowing that their life is not working out because The Coolest Person In The World had an issue that affects YOUR life.

In order to illustrate: The architect of my life is one of my True Emotion Mirrors. He is super fucking famous. He’s King Pin, right? Truly. He just pointed out that he’s been giving me this “superior” energy because TO HIM, I am superior in EVERYTHING I do. If you’d ask him, the way I take a shit is beyond beautiful. XD HE figures if I do ANYTHING, I should be super, super proud of myself and that energy translates to the way others see me: “She thinks she’s better than everybody else”. When he realized this, he changed the energy and apologized. I laughed with such pleasure. I’ve been ignored and disliked my whole life because Johnny fucking Depp thinks I’m cool as fuck.

I gotta end there. That line is everything.

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