What is the difference between a True Emotion Mirror and a close miss?

True Emotion Mirrors who have no resistance to falling in love can’t see anything about each other that they don’t like, love, or admire. IF THEY DO, they both AGREE WHOLLY that this is a problem and the better version of one or the other person would be X. If they disagree on what is the better way of being, they are not True Emotion Mirrors but a very close call Trail Companions*. (Even Precious Soulmates, in the state of full acceptance of truth, agree on everything, including that nature of their relationship is not sexual or not permanently sexual.)

So, to give you an example to illustrate… My True Emotion Mirrors are largely artists. What annoys the heck out of me in them is when they don’t ALLOW themselves to be as free to express themselves artistically as they should be. It ANNOYS ME when they allow the small-minded to talk them to do something commercial or safe or, OR to NOT allow themselves to do stuff that would sell well because they try to hold themselves to some idiotic ideal of “not being commercial”. It can go both ways. When they limit their artistic creativity for any reason, be it to not be commercial or to be commercial… Or to not be offensive or to be “intellectual” or to not be too sexually provocative or to be “edgy” on purpose. Trying to be better than they are, or not allowing themselves to be as good as they are, pretending to be humble when they are such cocky mothafuckas… 😀

True Emotion Mirrors are OFTEN irritated by each other’s pretenses, or willingness to please people who they don’t even like. What is typical to someone with a crush on an impressive Trail Companion* individual is that they try to FORCE that person into pleasing people they don’t even like. They are also irritated by that person’s True Emotion Mirrors, because they are trying to egg them on to do the opposite, often to break a contract, to break the mold, to break the chains holding them to a position where they are not entirely happy. True Emotion Mirrors are often considered troublemakers because they always want to make their beloved happy, whereas Trail Companions* try to harness that person’s power into the use of… Well, people they don’t even like, whoever that may be.

So. The close misses will disagree on what would be an improvement if something bothers them. True Emotion Mirrors, when they suggest an improvement to each other, like “I think you should let your hair grow long”, they feel LIBERATED by the suggestion. Like someone gives them permission to do something they want to do. Or… “I think you should join a gym”, would often be regarded as an insult from a Trail Companion* trying to find reasons to love you, but coming from a True Emotion Mirror is like discovering your strength: “I believe you have reached the point in your life when you are strong enough to tackle what you’ve been avoiding for all this time.” Whatever a True Emotion Mirror tells you, from the place of truth and love, feels amazing and liberating, even when it would be a massive insult from anybody else.

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