What you fear is what you get and “Good things can happen TODAY” affirmation

People program other people subconsciously by their own beliefs. Matthew McConaughey has such self-esteem, that he can walk into a meeting for a side role, and walk out with the leading role. He probably believes himself to be a hero to strangers, but he MIGHT believe men who know him hate him for the ease he gets things, and he probably gets that a lot. You get what you fear and believe to be true. You get what matches your sense of reality… Because you block away stuff that would shake up your sense of reality.

The way this works is that nobody’s sense of reality is never shaken to the core. You will have to alter your belief of what is possible before it comes to you. It makes us all feel safe. Now sometimes that sense of knowing what is to be expected can be very depressing. It’s kind of a “better the Devil you know” situation that affects all people.

Negative beliefs will manifest – change them

When you believe “you never get the girl/guy you’re actually in love with”, you will kind of broadcast that to the universe: Stay away from me. It is as if the Universe would believe pessimism isn’t possible. Therefore, everything you believe to be true, to the Universe sounds like a request. It sounds to OTHER PEOPLE like a request: “You know I love you. You know I love you. Truly. But you seem not to want me to say anything about it. It seems your idea of what can be would collapse.”

Therefore, you must change your beliefs. You may also be able to change other people’s beliefs, too, by a form of affirmation. You just have to carefully examine yourself to see if you BELIEVE what you are saying SHOULD be true… Your LOGICAL MIND will believe things that your subconscious mind rejects as a possibility. For instance, you may logically believe it should be PERFECTLY POSSIBLE for you to find SOMEONE in this vast world to love you, right? Logically, you see people less lovable than you frolick around with their true love, head-over-heels in love, but you somehow have convinced yourself this can’t happen for you. So your logic must overrun your hopeless heart sometime.

Tell yourself things you WANT TO BE TRUE

Also, make sure you tell yourself things you WANT TO believe, not something you DON’T even WANT TO be true. One good example would be someone who thinks they’re fat and ugly. If you decide that you have to tell yourself: “I’m beautiful the way I am”, is like having to settle for how you look now, because changing is absolutely beyond you, right? No, instead, say: “I can become beautiful. I can reach my own ideal body and look. I have the power to change myself.” If another fear pops up, find a phrase that will cancel it.

NEVER use stock affirmations without considering what they mean to you first. They hold no special magic, they are simply examples. Always customize what you tell yourself or use only phrases that you feel good about using.

What you want, you True Emotion Mirror also wants

It is also the most IMPOSSIBLE THING in the world to believe the people you love love you and want the same thing as you. Especially if you’re into something kinky or otherwise unusual, the last thing people tend to believe is that their true love is just as kinky. If they love you, certainly, there’s a downside, right? 😀

Always examine yourself for things you want, things you think you want, and things you don’t want but have fetishized to the point you can get off on them even though you don’t want it. For men, that would be to always love women who don’t love them back, to love the humiliation of serving a woman they love without ever being rewarded but only humiliated… Taking the humiliation as a fetishized reward. Do you REALLY want that or is it just something you’ve used to? You can’t, most likely, change her feelings for you, but you can certainly find a woman who DOES reward you with love.

Good things can happen today

Try this one for size. How many of us believe that good things can happen – one day? We rarely believe today’s the day. Consider changing your view on that by telling yourself good things can happen today. See how you feel? To me, the instant gut kickback was: “But I haven’t written that blog post yet. I don’t have TIME for good things!” So, I’ll change it a little: “Good things can happen today, and I’ll have quite enough time for work left, too.”

(It seems my soulmates have believed that in order for me to be happy, I will have to stop working ALLTOGETHER. I don’t want to do that. I wouldn’t be happy not working. It seems as tho I’ve even DEMANDED time for work rather than time for fun and games… ‘I don’t have TIME for good things, happiness, I have to work.’. But certainly, if there’s only work or happiness, well, it puts those two things in direct competition, and I’d rather work and be of help than be happy and useless. I prioritize self-respect over happiness… And my soulmates have wanted to force happiness on me by denying all good things until I’ve “worked hard enough for my liking”, which also means they’ve denied monetary reward to not encourage hard work and made me disrespect myself even more, forcing me to work more, not less.)

Your soulmates’ beliefs

So. The lesson to take there is that what people want for you and believe to be true for you is also a factor. This isn’t limited to your True Emotion Mirrors but everyone who holds an interest in your happiness in the measure as they believe they have a right to interfere in your life. (Imagine celebrities! A celebrity that feels they’ll leave it to fate to decide what’s good for them… Their fans are their fate.) You’ll have to change their beliefs of what’s good for you, too, and since they’re already monitoring your life from the spirit, you can just tell them, in spirit, how you actually want things… Under what conditions you are ABLE to receive what they want to give you.

For instance, if you believe only beautiful thin women deserve love, they may try and force you to be fat so they can prove to you they love you despite. But if you want to be fit for the sake of being fit, in order to give your lover the gift of a beautiful wife, then heck, you’re in a bolt-lock situation, aren’t you? He refuses to reward obsession over beauty and you refuse to give him a fatty to love. (Just going with the stereotypes, here, I mean… Well, you’re a grown-up.)

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