Why do True Emotion Mirrors feel irritated by each other?

Mind you, not everyone who you’re irritated by is your True Emotion Mirror. However,  when you meet your True Emotion Mirror, they may irritate you at first. This seems illogical, considering they are your perfect partner, someone fully compatible with you to a level difficult to imagine without actually having met them yet. The reason for the irritation between True Emotion Mirrors is the fact True Emotion Mirrors need to be pure for each other, as in for them to fit perfectly together, they need to be 100% authentic within themselves.

Now, years and years of mixing and mingling with predominately Trail Companions*, everyone picks up stuff along the way that is inauthentic. We always try to please those surrounding us, and if they’re not True Emotion Mirrors, which is most of the time, they try to “fix you” as in to make you more to their liking, which, regardless of what kind of a person you are, in terms of your authentic spirit, is going to be a tarnish. This includes religious and philosophical beliefs as much as anything else – if you have to force it, it’s inauthentic to some extent. That is not to tell you not to work hard, just don’t force yourself to work hard. (Also, don’t force yourself to stop working hard. If it’s harder to stop than to keep going, keep going.)

Points to consider

True Emotion Mirrors have the same true enjoyments. Their TRUE joy comes from the same place. If you feel irritated by someone’s refusal to become what you want them to be, it’s not a True Emotion Mirror. You may have a clear idea of what your True Emotion Mirror is like, but you don’t have to use a lot of force to coax them to be that for you. True Emotion Mirrors feel liberated from the burden of having to be something they are not. They feel that finally, they are being loved for their “BAD” TRAITS as much as their good ones, but initially, your True Emotion Mirror is irritated because you’re pandering to someone else’s idea of what a good person is.

It can work the other way, too. Your True Emotion Mirror may free you to be just as much a workaholic as you are. You may feel liberated to being as much an idealist as you are. They may completely understand your judgmental attitudes stemming from high morals. They may support you fully to become as fit as you always wanted to be – or they may feel guilty wanting you to become a better version of who you are, without realizing you enjoy the push when Trail Companions* have tried to make you try less and be less difficult to compete with.

Trail Companions* ALWAYS irritate you

This post is not to say that you will identify your True Emotion Mirror based on them being irritated by or irritating to you. Far from it. We are ALWAYS irritated by our Trail Companions*. That goes without saying. The surprising part is that we get irritated by our True Emotion Mirrors, too, who should be perfect in our eyes. The thing is, they will, initially, carry some Trail Companion* energies, like toxins they’ve picked up when having relationships, both romantic, family, and friendships with their Trail Companions*.

So, effectively, what you are irritated by is something that comes from your Trail Companions* (which is everyone except Destination Soulmates*), but sometimes, their influence is strong in your True Emotion Mirror, and that can irritate the c*** out of you.

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