True Emotion Mirrors can’t be made by a “paid upfront” -plan

There are some people who believe love will ignite as a result to love. While sometimes this is true, there are some prerequisites for this to occur: You must be equal to that person to begin with, and the only reason for them not having loved you before must be that they never truly paid attention to you before; they never NOTICED you before. Once you start showing them loving attention, they will take a new look at you, and they will fall in love with you as a result of NOTICING you, and how cool you are. This can also lead to a True Emotion Mirror relationship.

HOWEVER, this doesn’t work in a situation where the person who is loved WOULD NOT love you even if they knew you. I know there are fans who have showered love and attention toward a celebrity in full belief that celebrity will eventually awaken like from a dream: “Who is this person who loves me so? I must have been crazy to not love them before…” When there are literally MILLIONS OF PEOPLE doing something similar, most of them with NO expectation of being loved back. They hope to be appreciated, maybe, but not loved back on a personal level.

There are people who believe that if they just put in all the effort, more effort than anyone else, they will eventually win that person’s love and devotion as was shown to them. They may believe that if this doesn’t happen, that person is cold, callous, and narcissistic, but that is not the case. The reason is, that true love must be born out of the joy of that person’s existence, not out of the favors they do to the other person.

You cannot treat people like an open love-policy payment system

True love is born out of similar two minds with similar intelligence meeting. You cannot show enough love to anyone to compensate the lack of intellectual genuine understanding of that person’s mind. No matter how much you admire that person’s way of being, if you cannot inspire them to greater things, (no matter where they start) you can’t get them to love you. It’s a situation of you either have it or you don’t. This is why people who know this don’t spend that much energy in trying to pre-pay for other’s love, and they don’t put a huge amount of effort into their relationships initially.

They wait for a green light, they wait for permission to fall in love, they wait for that connection to be formed before they allow themselves to fall in love with another person. To TRULY love someone is a privilege, not a job you can apply for, even though a lot of people may get there simply by awakening GUILT in a person, not love. So when this strategy works, it works by guilt and obligation being awakened, not true love – if it took a lot of effort to get there as opposed to simply awakening their attention.

Payment plan love can easily turn to pay-back hate

Once a person like this has gained the attention of the one they love, and been refused for a relationship, their love can turn from devotion to vicious hate overnight. They feel they haven’t been given what is owed to them, and once they feel confirmed that their efforts are not appreciated to that level, to the level of proposing marriage, that is, they feel like they’ve been scammed out of this love and devotion, EVEN IF that person had never met them before.

Without naming any names, I am CERTAIN there are a few #JusticeForJohnnyDepp people out there who would be shocked to find they won’t be new Mrs. Depp regardless of their dutiful daily service to the man if he’d pay attention and to realize the work they’ve done. I wouldn’t be surprised if some of his loudest supporters will turn their coats and declare him an ungrateful covert narcissist if he ever starts dating again out of love for someone, rather than out of gratitude.

You are solely responsible for free love you’ve sent someone

If you took a punt on the love of another person, you are responsible for having unrealistic expectations in regards to them. The more effort you put in, the more you have to check your expectations. You must be that person’s equal, and truly, it’s up to them to decide whether you are or are not. Also, you must understand that when a person meets their True Emotion Mirror, one look in their eyes can give them more love and healing power than a decade of devotion from the wrong person – this connection is that powerful. Imagine a life spent with someone whose gaze heals all of your wounds every time they look at you – and you both feel that way about each other.

That is available to everyone, but not with anyone at all. If you have wasted your love on the wrong person, ask the Universe to finally show you the right one. I promise you’ll be amazed… But that does require letting go of that other person and letting them go in peace and love. Your confusion and misplaced expectations are not their fault.

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