Don’t confuse your circumstance (or the people around you) for who you are

There are people who assume that the urge to “accept who you are” means the same thing as “accept your circumstance for what it is” or “accept the company you keep for who you are”. I could NEVER say ANYTHING that stupid and depressing! You are whatever you are. Your circumstance is whatever you are. Your friends and family are whatever you are, and yes, in you do have to accept things are the way they are NOW in order to CHANGE them, but at first you need to see the way things ARE in order to change them FOR THE BETTER. Accepting who you are means that you accept what kind of things YOU NEED in order to enjoy life. And your circumstance and current company might not provide the first thing to make you happy. If your circumstance isn’t the way you want it to be, the reason for it more than likely is bad company, aka. bad choices in regards to people you’ve spent time with in the past; your Trail Companions* that have turned Antagonist, or Main Trap -relationships.

You must rescue yourself by changing the company you keep. You must cut ties to people who abuse you, who use you, and who don’t love you. Everyone who you don’t love and those who don’t understand you must go. You cannot afford two things in your life: People who don’t understand you, and people who don’t want what’s best for you, but who want what’s best for them. You need people who understand you, and whose best is the same as your best. You want people who, by helping themselves, they help you, or by helping you, they help themselves. Those two things must go hand-in-hand. You CANNOT keep people in your life who, in order to be happy, must put you in a circumstance where you are NOT happy… Or vice versa.

Reincarnation is supposed to help you find your true happiness (in the form of the right friends)

You’re an eternal being. Through reincarnation, you tie to yourself the people who dictate the way your life will turn out. If you’ve made bad choices in friends in your past lives, they come back to haunt you in this one. Just consider your friends and family in this lifetime. How would you feel about each individual linked to you, if you knew the same person has been around you since time immemorial? Do you want them there? Would you dispair a little? What if I told you that if you don’t cut those ties in this lifetime, that same mothafucka will be with you in the next lifetime, too.

Only people who are surrounded by their Destination Soulmates* only, and the person who is abusing all others are the ones who find this idea comforting. You must find friends who you know want you there, and who you want to be there with you… Forever.

Do whatever you must do (as long as it’s legal) to get rid of these people. To get away from them.

Check out the Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology for help in what to look for, and what to cut out.

Everything from insanity to unhappiness is about bad company you keep

There is no real insanity in this world, there is no unhappiness in this world, there are simply unsuitable people in your life. Life is like a vessel with as many steering wheels as there are people who call each other friends. Each one of you is steering the vessel into the direction that you want it to go with equal power. NONE OF YOU will be happy if you all have free will and you know how to use it. And I suggest you do use your vote, but if you care for other people at all, you jump ship when you realize these people want to reach an entirely different port from your dreams, OK?

Whatever your problem, it comes from bad (soulmate) relationships. Nothing else. This is why the Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology is so important. This is why you need to understand people. You need to know where your soulmates are forcing your ship toward.

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