Manifesting: Let the Universe know how you want to feel… not so much what you want.
The key to manifesting, I feel, is to try to not control things too much. The problem with this is, that many of us have friends and family members who are trying to control things on our behalf. This is why the people who have genuinely no real friends left find it easiest to move onto power positions because nobody CARES where they wind up. Still, tell the Universe how you want to feel, and if you feel stuck with some people, start with “I want to feel free from this person or that group of people”. Another way of thinking about this is that the Universe is like a… Supercomputer… Obviously, supercomputers will pale in comparison, but you get the idea. It’s a powerful computer that calculates everyone’s path to their dreams… Past each other’s dreams, interlocking other’s dreams where it can.
Nobody wants ALL of their wishes to come true as soon as they have it
The Universe is a perfectly designed machine on the basis of “everybody to get what they wish for”. It is completely ungamable, therefore, as it is true that NOBODY wants all of their dreams to come true as soon as they think it, that, also is a genuine wish that came true. We must EARN our way, to some extent, to our dreams. No dream is completely blocked out of our way, and the Law of the Truest Wish dictates that no dream that would block your way from your truest wish will ever come true. YOUR truest wish.
There’s also a possible thing, that if someone’s Truest Wish happens to be impossible, but their earnest truest wish, for example, is that you will fall in love with them when you truly don’t find them attractive. That wish, if they cannot let go of it, will persist as a blockage in your way as you’re heading toward your Truest Wishes. And if they would accept you faking it, their wish has a lot of power over you.
Your parents may TRULY WISH something else for you than what you want… Maybe you truly wish for a superbly sexually gratifying life, but your parents wish for a picket fence living for you… As your faith in the possibility of your dream coming true is weak, your parents may win.
You don’t have to believe… Absolutely
You don’t truly need to believe in either the Law of Attraction or the Law of the Truest Wish for them to work for you. No matter how far off course you drift in your lack of faith, you’ll always move toward your Truest Wish gradually, slowly, across lifetimes, even… If it is even in the realm of possibility. However, you will get there quicker, if you even believe in the realm of possibility that your dream might come true and consciously work toward it. NOTHING will come true if you have NO FAITH in the possibility that it might. I mean… If you believe you can’t possibly fix your car, why would you even try? You have to have enough faith to believe something to be POSSIBLE, but not so much that you need to “will it” to become real.
Willing things into reality can work for some people (kinda)
Some people believe that to want it is to believe it. They’re a little… Insane. They fully believe they can have anything they want, and when surrounded by people who believe their wishes rarely come true, the ones whose belief in their own wishes coming true is 100%, they tend to get their way a lot. It’s a bit of a game of “who wants it most”, but there’s also the factor of “don’t want”. So there must be a part of you that REFUSES certain dreams related to you. For instance, DO NOT get into relationships you truly don’t want. That person maybe completely happy in a relationship that they FULLY KNOW not to be based on true love but their willpower over your wish to be with someone else. Many women feel “loved” when men give up their dreams of another woman “to be” with them.
Don’t let that happen. Your DON’T WANT is a powerful tool for manifestation, especially as you look at it from the reincarnational perspective. You must CLEAR your soul circles from people who use their will-power over you in a negative way so you can manifest things easier.
Focus on how you want to feel, not what you want
The Universe is coded by emotion, not by thought as much. Thought has an influence, but emotion has a lot more to do with it. Let the Universe feel what you wish from it. Let other people feel what you wish from them. How you want to feel with them, how you feel about them. The people who like that same feeling will flock to you, the people who don’t will avoid you – and that’s a good thing, as they aren’t compatible with your dreams.
Don’t remember how you want to feel NOW or the next minute
Also remind yourself to not only focus on the future but also remember to manifest feelings in the short term. How do you want to feel in the here and now? We often focus on the bad feeling we’re feeling now, but we don’t offer the Universe a plan of change. You send out “I don’t want this I don’t want this I don’t want this” but you don’t tell the Universe what you want instead. You think it’s obvious, but tell you what, it isn’t. People are nuts. Some people genuinely enjoy suffering – or so they feel like to others and the Universe around them.
Tell the Universe how you’d like to feel today. Free? Lucky? Hopeful? Like things were possible? Or perhaps calm and able to focus on your work? Social and wanted? Welcome somewhere?
How you want to feel with that person or with somebody
If you have wishes regarding a specific person, let the Universe and that person know how you want to feel with them. There is a possibility some of you want to feel things with a person they truly don’t want to feel with you, so they will block your energy, so have a backup plan: “I want to feel this with this person… If they reject me, this is the feeling I’m looking for…” Then, reel back, and remember that we have a tendency of rejecting ourselves from a person who wants us and who is perfect for us… So your safest dream is something along the lines of: “I want to feel this with the most perfect person/people possible…” You should pull in your True Emotion Mirrors and Precious Soulmates with that, as long as other dreams give it time to…
Don’t focus on HOW you want things to go/look like unless it’s of vital importance to you
Give the Universe as much freedom in the manifestation as you can. Give it room to move. Therefore, don’t lock in things that don’t truly matter to you. If you don’t care if you’ll meet the love of your life at the bar or the library, don’t worry about it. If you don’t care if you make your money selling cars or kites, don’t put a lot of emphasis on the how or what. Don’t worry about building a road, just noticing when the road opens in front of you.
However, you probably HAVE an opinion on some things. Those things, if you really don’t want to sell kites, don’t sell kites. If you really want to be proposed to on a mountainside, dream it all you want (don’t tell him to, it’ll ruin it!) but if you really don’t care, let the Universe take the best course available to your TRUE specifications… The FEELING you want to experience.
We all want REALITY, not dreams
And one more thing…
Everyone here wants their dreams to come TRUE… This means nobody wants to MANIPULATE their feelings into feeling something they don’t genuinely feel. Therefore, remember a wish is a wish, and the real feeling is the answer to that wish. Your job is not to put yourself into that mindset before it actually happens. But your wishes are important. Have the wish and then let it go. Let it manifest on its own when it’s time.
If a dream has a good hold on you, tho, keep dreaming it, no harm in that, but you don’t need to force yourself into feeling something that you don’t authentically feel yet. Like… “I want to feel grateful” doesn’t mean you have to start feeling grateful for things you don’t TRULY feel grateful for… Even though many spiritual guides urge you to do just this. Maybe, if you say: “I want to feel grateful today”, maybe you’ll notice a few things you haven’t noticed for a while, but don’t force it. Force is fake. You want the real stuff.
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